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Jealous Maid of Honor

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Candi, on February 24, 2017 at 7:50 PM

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Are any of you ladies dealing with a jealous maid of honor?? My Maid schedules meetings/discussions without telling OR inviting me. She literally went to a bridal show and didn't invite me or tell me at all. It's just something all of the time. If you have any tips on how to deal with this, HELP. I never would have thought she would act this way about me getting married. She's really taking all of the enjoyable things away from me. How do you leave out the bride??

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Master April 2017
A&L · on February 25, 2017 at 9:35 AM
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FYI. Vendors at bridal shows books for all kinds of events not just weddings.
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Master May 2017
MTB · on February 25, 2017 at 9:35 AM
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Okay yeah that's weird. She told you she booked a vendor and never even spoke with them? I'd confront her.
ETA: and wouldn't believe anything she says
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VIP October 2017
Anne · on February 25, 2017 at 9:46 AM
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I would just say "Thanks for your input but I have everything taken care of. I just want you to have a good time at our wedding".
Don't discuss vendors with her. Do all the contacting yourself. It's your wedding, after all.
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Master November 2017
Del · on February 25, 2017 at 9:49 AM
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Ok, if she's pretending to have booked vendors, something very strange is happening. She may be in need of mental help.

Put wedding planning aside for a moment. This lady is your MOH. That means you have a pre-existing loving relationship. Who do you know in her life who could be able to assess the situation and get her the help she needs?
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Super August 2017
FutureMrsAF · on February 25, 2017 at 3:50 PM
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Yeah.. I am all for help, but don't book my effing vendors. Especially don't tell me you booked them, when you actually never booked them. That doesn't make sense.
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VIP October 2017
Gracie Lou Freebush · on February 25, 2017 at 3:56 PM
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Sounds like she has other problems..
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Devoted April 2017
SWBoho · on February 25, 2017 at 4:27 PM
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Regardless of her intentions, MOH= nearest and dearest.
Sit her and/or her mother down, get to the bottom of what's going on with her and take care of your friend. Something is clearly up with her, and she's clearly not handling it well alone.
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