Jack & Jill Party is an anticipated and pretty much expected tradition in the 413 area. It's a BLAST!!

Jack and Jill parties are the norm around here (413 area code). Friends, friends of friends, family, parents and even guys/gals the brides & groom's parents work with BUY tickets even if they are not attending. The family of the bride and groom either cook for the event or it is catered. Generally it is held at an American Legion, VFW etc. There is always good food, DJ, great raffle prizes both LARGE (think weekend get away, Weber Grill, NE pro sports tickets, etc) and lovely smaller baskets and Lottery Ticket trees. Prize tickets are sold at the door. DJ for dancing and free keg beer- sometimes open liquor bar. PEOPLE CHOOSE to attend this event because they have a great time. Yes B&G will make some money after all costs for the party are paid. In this area men do not have Stag parties anymore. MIL may hold bride a shower with only ladies who are invited to the wedding. This is not tacky here and it is a blast! Throw an engagement party AND Jack & Jill = Wicked Tacky!