It's My Day! 😠

View Quoted Comment Why would you consider it rude?

View Quoted Comment Not yet, since my date is so far out and we haven’t sent save the dates or invites and haven’t finalized the guest lists, but it will be known

View Quoted Comment Because, at this point, with movies and tv shows, we all know that brides in certain cultures wear white (and in others, it's a symbol of mourning).

So, with a quick google, any adult should know it is the one shade you don't wear to a wedding - either you're trying to compete with the bride, or you're making a public statement of grief.

View Quoted Comment Yes, it does. The most important thing at the wedding was that we became legally married and guest attire doesn't have any effect on that.

Would I mind? yes. would I say something? never. I feel like someone at some point might (not me or my family, wedding party, etc.) ..more like another guest. If not, it wouldn't affect anything. I just don't think saying something would be beneficial lol. other woman looking beautiful has never bothered me so taking attention away from me isn't a problem.. although, i don't think my guest will have trouble figuring out who the bride is.. I will have along veil, actual wedding dress, and a literal crown on lmao.

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Oh okay, I didn't mention it but no one wore a white dress. I feel like its an unspoken wedding rule.

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I agree that its public knowledge but I personally wouldn't consider it rude. I would think the person wanted attention.

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I understand this perspective.

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I'm with you on this one. I'd let my bridesmaids or a guest handle that.