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Jazmine
Expert September 2019

It’s All Going Wrong

Jazmine, on September 11, 2019 at 7:01 AM Posted in Planning 0 11
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Four weeks before wedding:
Long lost sister comes back and says she’ll come. No one cared about the wedding except that she was coming.
Three weeks before wedding:
Location has to be changed due to construction next door. My aisle will now be in the middle of a restaurant and not a garden.
Bridesmaid’s dress doesn’t fit. She needs a new one.
Two weeks before wedding:
Long lost sister cancels coming to wedding. Everyone is now focused on her NOT coming instead of the wedding.
Work is hell. Almost quit.
A week before the wedding:
Get drunk to handle above. Fall down.
Three days before:
Fall causes a black eye.

I laughed as I woke up to the black eye today. I’m so over this.

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Latest activity by Future Mrs. Danger, on September 12, 2019 at 9:43 AM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time at the end of your engagement. I'm sure your makeup artist can make your black eye completely unnoticeable, and three days should also be a good amount of time for any swelling or initial bruising to go down. But all this pre-wedding drama is almost over, you get to marry your favorite person in three days and everything will be great. Wishing you the best! Smiley heart

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  • Jeanie
    Super February 2020
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    Sounds like there’s a lot of things that are not going right for you right now. If no one wants to come because of your sister, that’s on them. I would totally get pictures of you with the black eye uncovered dressed in your wedding gown. That would be a hilarious picture to look back on! And at least being inside you won’t have to worry about humidity ruining your hair. Just focus on the positives, like getting married to your man in just a few days! Congrats!
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  • Melissa
    Beginner November 2021
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    I'm so sorry to hear you're having to deal with so much stress and chaos right before your big day. I agree with Jeanie about the black eye picture idea but I am sure you will be able to get it covered with make up and three days really should make a huge difference with coloration and swelling being reduced. I hope the thunder that was stolen by the sister dies down a bit as well. Give your FH a big hug, blast some upbeat love songs or Lizzo (if you're into that) and remind yourself that this is YOUR day. Good luck with everything!

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  • Megan
    Super October 2020
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    Omg this sounds like the month from hell. So sorry you’re going through this! ALL of this! But as Amber said, your black eye will be no prob at all for makeup!! You’re going to have a wonderful day, regardless of the changes. I know it’s hard to look on the bright side (I’m not going to suggest that because I get so mad when people say that to me 😂 lol).

    But maybe list out the positive things, or do something to pamper yourself!! Do something to counteract all the crap that’s been happening!

    good luck on your wedding day!! I hope you have an amazing time!
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  • Sonya
    Dedicated February 2021
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    No comment to add.. Just want to give you a "AIR HUG" cause Girl you need it!... positive vibes sweetie.. and I totally feel ya...
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  • Cheryl
    Expert November 2020
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    Sorry for your situation. Try to focus on the good stuff. Be grateful for what you have. You could wake up tomorrow and it could all be gone.
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Omg I'm so sorry all that is happening in a succession and at all. Sending you positive vibes.take some time briefly to do something pampering or relaxing for yourself.
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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I'm so sorry this is happening to you! Sending you hugs Smiley heart

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  • Tina
    VIP March 2020
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    Gentle hugs! Just try to focus on your FH and the beautiful wedding and marriage. 💜
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  • Melissa
    Dedicated July 2021
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    Sending many hugs your way and wishing you a beautiful wedding day!
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  • Future Mrs. Danger
    Expert November 2019
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    Hang in there! You are almost there and once your day is here, everything will just fall into place. Don't stress what you can't control. The construction, the sister, work....nothing you can do about it. However, you can limit the booze and get plenty of sleep. If you workout...go work out hard! This all will help you feel better.

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