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Jade
Expert November 2021

Is this a good idea?

Jade, on November 9, 2019 at 3:22 PM Posted in Wedding Reception 0 8
So I have been thinking about our first dance song and I have an idea and I want to know what you all think of it. So when I think of our first dance song, I want a song that reminds me of me and FH and that’s what I care about most. On the other hand, my FH is super insecure about dancing so he is extremely concerned about having a “danceable” song and thinks any romantic song is good as long as he can dance to it lol. I’m also SUPER indecisive and I know finding a song will be so difficult and I think it’s one of the more important decisions we have to make about our wedding.

So now to my idea. I was thinking about maybe me picking 10 songs or whatever amount, and sending them to FH and then having him pick 1 of the 10 as our first dance song. I wouldn’t know what he picked so when it starts to play on our wedding day it’d be a surprise! It helps me because I love sooo many songs already, and it helps him because he can really feel comfortable with the song. Is this a good idea? Or is a first dance song the type of thing a couple should decide together as a really special thing?

8 Comments

Latest activity by Courtney, on November 10, 2019 at 3:20 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I think as long as that plan works for you and your FH, you should go for it! It doesn’t matter how you find the song as long as you both love it.
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  • Pirate & 60s Bride
    Legend March 2017
    Pirate & 60s Bride ·
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    I think that’s an adorable idea! Cute the way both of you are included.
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  • M
    Expert September 2020
    Marcia ·
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    I think that’s a really cool idea.
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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    I think that’s a cute idea. The fact that you want to make sure he’s comfortable is so sweet and this way you will have a surprise. I love the idea.
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  • G
    Dedicated August 2020
    Gean ·
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    That's very cool !

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  • Destiny
    VIP May 2020
    Destiny ·
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    I think its cute i wanted to do deeper than a holler but fh says its not dancable

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  • Sara
    Expert February 2020
    Sara ·
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    I love that idea! As long and you're both into that decision I think you should do it!
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  • Courtney
    Master December 2019
    Courtney ·
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    I think that's a sweet idea. Smiley heart

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