Is there a thing as too many ring bearers and flower girls?

How old is everyone? Maybe some could ushers? I have 3 nephews who would be old enough to be ring bearers (1 will turn 1 the day before so he's just going to be there for pictures) My nephews will be 7 and 2 and FH's nephew will be 7. The 2 year old will have the actual rings and the 2 older ones will be "security" and make sure the 2 year old makes it down the aisle lol. If you want all of them, I say go for it! but if it feels a little overwhelming to you and some are old enough, asking them to be ushers is always an option.

I don't think that's too many. It's your wedding, and you know what people are important to you! What are their ages? Any old enough to be Jr. Bridesmaids or Jr. Groomsmen instead? I completely understand the struggle, I had 5 nieces and nephews I wanted to include (2 more that are teenagers, so they will be escorting MOB and Grandmother) and FH has a niece as well as a much younger sister (along with 3 older sisters, but they understood that not everyone could be in the actual wedding party and we giving them many other things to help with and do so they still feel included.) So we broke it down like this:

-My 2 nieces will be 10 at our wedding, so we made them Jr. Bridesmaids.

-2 of my nephews will be 7 at our wedding, so we made them Jr. Groomsmen (with the option of sitting for the ceremony because we understand kids are kids and they might not want to stand with the guys the whole time)

-My youngest nephew will be 4, and we made him ring bearer

-FH's niece will be almost 2, we made her flower girl

-His youngest sister will be 12, but we gave her the task of helping his niece with her flower girl responsibilities, because I've been to many weddings where small children just refuse to cooperate!

I am having 5x kids & a dog in my

3x of the boys are junior groomsmen - they range in ages 8 - 10.

The dog is the ring bearer.

2x girls are flower girls. They will be 2 & 3 - they will be escorted down the aisle with one of the junior groomsmen, b/c one of the flower girls mom were nervous about her walking down the aisle & not getting distracted and walking over to the attendees LOL

The other 2x are going to come in escorting the dog. I have a dedicated person assigned for them to bring the dog to after they walk down the aisle.

I'm going to have the first aisle of seats open, and the one flower girl mom & the other flower girl dad, and the junior groomsmen Aunt will sit there w/ them (the rest of their family is in the wedding).

I'm having 3 flower girls (ages 3, 5, 6) and 2 jr bridesmaids (ages 9 and 12). There were so many more I wanted to include but I didn't want there to be more children than adults in the bridal party even though I love kids. I would say it is personal preference and if you have a specific location for them to go to after they walk up the aisle (like seats) it should be fine.

You can have as many as you want but another idea maybe some of them as sign holders like "here comes the bride" signs.

sign holders for the wedding