Is the Father/daughter dance for me or my dad?

I know this sounds like a silly question but I can't seem to get it out of my head. FH and I were discussing our timeline and we are both fine without having the mother/son and father/daughter dance. There is no strain in our relationships with either of them but we're not super-close-talk-to-them-everyday-they're-the-first-people-we-call-and-they're-both-from-the-Asian-motherland-if-that-makes-it-more-understandable (hehe)... so we nixed it from our timeline because my WE'RE okay not doing it. We're not getting any advice or opinions from them for this wedding (they are both contributing a fourth of the budget total but are giving us free range for us to plan) but I am the only girl and FH is her only child... should we at least run it past them to see if it's okay that we don't do those dances? Or is it more for the parents?