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Savvy August 2021

Is my maid of honor overstepping?

Naoomi, on August 4, 2020 at 4:19 PM

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This is what my MOH said in response to the dress I sent her. Her message before was like “wow” and my other maid of honor and mom said it’s stunning. I haven’t tried it on and am just looking at my options because I don’t know what my style may be yet. But this is also someone who has never liked...
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This is what my MOH said in response to the dress I sent her. Her message before was like “wow” and my other maid of honor and mom said it’s stunning. I haven’t tried it on and am just looking at my options because I don’t know what my style may be yet. But this is also someone who has never liked any of my prom dresses or anything I’ve worn and does not have the same style as me. I wonder if she’s overstepping or just being a good MOH because this is my wedding and not something small like prom.
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  • Cristy
    Master May 2021
    Cristy ·
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    I don't get it. If you sent her the picture, she may have thought you wanted her opinion. Why else would you send her the picture?

    Most people in this situation would give some kind of opinion. And just because she doesn't like it, or doesn't agree with you, doesn't mean she is overstepping. If your MOH can't tell you the truth, who can?

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  • Katie
    VIP August 2021
    Katie ·
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    I agree to an extent with this. I don't think a bride should show everyone everything they are doing with their wedding. However when it comes to the wedding party I think that they should get to see some of the things you are planning on doing. Technically they are there to help you plan your wedding.
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  • J
    Master October 2022
    Jana ·
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    I agree with this. Most people when they receive a picture tend to think you're looking for an opinion and don't want something sugarcoated even if it's not their personal style. That may be where she's coming from. Also best friends all over the globe have different tastes and opinions without any issues behind it.
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