Amy
October 2020

Is my dress too low cut?

Amy, on January 31, 2020 at 12:39 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 2 56
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Is my dress too low cut? 1
This is a photo of my wedding dress! I love it but the more I look at it the more concern I feel about the neckline. I love it the way it is, but I don’t want to be labeled a “scandalous” bride. Should I fill in the center with lace or leave it as is?

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Latest activity by romtina, on February 20, 2020 at 2:20 PM
  • L
    Super October 2020
    Leslie ·
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    If it was me, I move the modesty panel up a few inches.

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  • Hillary
    Expert October 2021
    Hillary ·
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    Do whatever you want! I have a low cut dress with essentially a sheer top, but I’m not worried about it. Cups will be put in during alterations. I’m sure your dress can be altered to how you would like. Is my dress too low cut? 2

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  • Joanna
    Dedicated October 2020
    Joanna ·
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    Dang you look STUNNING!!!!
    Do not be ashamed for being more blessed in the chest than others. I wouldn't fill it in, because I think you look amazing, but if you decide to maybe try just the bottom part of the slit. Does that make sense?
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  • Joanna
    Dedicated October 2020
    Joanna ·
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    Wow you're stunning too!!!!!
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  • Jai
    Rockstar May 2020
    Jai ·
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    I love it! Things it brings it altogether; sexy, beautiful. Mine has a little cleavage as well!Is my dress too low cut? 3

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  • Mandee
    Devoted September 2020
    Mandee ·
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    Darling, as a breast cancer patient I am telling you that more people have seen my boobs than a stripper! Boobs are nothing to be ashamed of and you should flaunt em if you want to! If you love your dress the way it is then WEAR IT!!! You look great!

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  • Hannah
    Master July 2019
    Hannah Online ·
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    I think it's all about personal comfort. You look great in that dress. I personally would feel uncomfortable with that neckline. However, that's me. If you like it, then rock it!
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
    MOB So Cal ·
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    I agree with Hannah.... More than anything, I'd want to feel completely comfortable and confident on my wedding day. If you're comfortable, go for it. If you'll be doubting yourself and/or constantly feeling the need to "readjust," then I would definitely have the dress altered so you don't feel that way. How you feel may also be connected to how you believe your guests will see you and your dress. Honestly, in our family, I'm certain there would be many who would see a super low-cut wedding dress as inappropriate; knowing that, even if I could wear a dress like yours, I would be extremely self-conscious in it. So, as mentioned above, I'd alter so I'd feel more relaxed and confident. However, that's my family -- you know yours best. (There is no doubt you look beautiful, it's just a matter of how you feel.) Good luck!

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  • Chrysta
    Master November 2022
    Chrysta ·
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    You look 🔥 in that dress!! I wouldn’t do a thing to it!
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  • Jess
    Expert October 2019
    Jess ·
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    Is my dress too low cut? 4
    Mine was pretty low cut too! I say do what you’re comfortable in. If you’re gonna be worried about it and stressing about it then maybe it’s best to change it to make you more comfortable and give you peace of mind.
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    The real question is... are YOU comfortable in it? If not, then your insecurity about the neckline will be evident as you’re wearing the dress and feeling concerned about the cleavage. You want to be sure you’ll feel completely comfortable and confident as you walk down the aisle (with all eyes on you), while you’re dancing and when you interact with guests all night. If you can confidently answer “yes” and aren’t worried about what others think... then rock your dress!!!
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  • Tina
    VIP March 2020
    Tina ·
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    That is a stunning dress! Who’s it by? And I think you look perfect!
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  • A
    Super August 2020
    Alex ·
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    It is beautiful! I wouldn't change anything.


    My only question is it a church wedding? My family would have a problem with it if it was in a church.

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    Firstly, your dress is beautiful Amy Smiley love

    I would advise you do whatever you're most comfortable with. If you're comfortable with current neckline, stick with it Smiley smile

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  • Clíodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Clíodhna ·
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    I'm still obsessed and in love with your dress Smiley love EVERYTIME I see a picture of it in the community I have to stop and admire it Smiley laugh

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  • Cyndy
    Rockstar May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Your dress is beautiful on you and if you’re comfortable that’s all that matters. Has it been fitted yet? They might be able to pull the shoulders up a bit and that will help and if not I think it looks great.
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  • W-K
    Super October 2019
    W-K ·
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    It would be too low cut for my comfort but I'm very modest (no cleavage, at all for any reason).

    Think about it this way for you, if you think you're going to even be slightly uncomfortable or self conscious about it during your wedding I would have it altered. If you think you won't be worried about it, don't. But I have a feeling just from the question that you're probably going to be worried about it the day of.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I think it's completely fine. But it really depends on your crowd and what makes you comfortable!

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  • Jessica
    Savvy July 2020
    Jessica ·
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    Nope it looks beautiful. If it bothers you then change it. You will make a beautiful Bride no matter what you choose. BTW I love your dress.

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  • Meredith
    Just Said Yes May 2020
    Meredith ·
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    I had the same concern about my dress, and mine is way more revealing than yours!!! And btw you look amazing!!!! If you are comfortable, I say rock it!!! I also gave strict instructions that if I had a nip slip at any point during the reception, they were to fix it immediately.

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