My FI and I are trying to put together logistics as far as how we are going to go about our bachelor/bachelorette parties. He really is hell bent on having it the week of, meanwhile I'm just feel like I'm going to be freaking out the week of, but we are hiring a wedding planner so essentially by this time everything will just need to be executed properly. I would prefer this time to honestly have to myself and trust the process (still being a phone call away though), but a lot of our bridesmaids and groomsmen are out of town guest so we are essentially trying to figure the most feasible way possible to execute this. I just personally don't think it is smart.
ADVICE PLEASE!
FYI: We aren't planning our parties, but we are going out of town and have opted to be in charge of our own plane tickets and things like that and we also are trying to be considerate to our Bridal party by not having them have to take off so many days or buy so many plane tickets.