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Molly
Beginner December 2017

Is it ok to request gift cards on registry?

Molly, on June 29, 2017 at 2:48 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 24

Hello! I'm curious as to how people feel about adding gift cards to the wedding registry. We are registered with Kohls and Amazon. We are saving to replace our rotten deck and fencing around our back yard. Gift cards from Lowes (available on Amazon registry) would be super helpful. Does this seem tacky to include them on our registry?

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Latest activity by Erin, on July 15, 2019 at 1:34 PM
  • Macy
    Super September 2016
    Macy ·
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    UO: If I saw them on an Amazon registry I wouldn't even think twice.

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  • PABride
    Dedicated September 2017
    PABride ·
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    I think its fine. Its not like you're asking for straight up cash.

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  • Molly
    Beginner December 2017
    Molly ·
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    Thank you! We have lived together for two years and already own a home together. If our guests would like to give us a gift, the most helpful would be the kind that could be put towards our deck/fencing project. Hmmmm....I wonder if someone will offer to build it. I kid. Smiley winking

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  • RAG
    Super November 2017
    RAG ·
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    I normally buy gift cards if I see it put on someone's registry. I personally don't see the big deal about it

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  • OregonBrooke
    Dedicated September 2017
    OregonBrooke ·
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    Yes! I like that option as a gift giver. Sometimes there are very expensive gifts I can't afford (and I assume others can't either), and I assume the recipient would combine gift cards to get that big ticket item.

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  • Kirstie819
    Super August 2017
    Kirstie819 ·
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    We put Lowes gift cards on our registry. We want to completely renovate our basement.

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  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
    OGJessieJV ·
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    It's like asking for cash. I'd side eye it, and buy something on the low end of your registry.

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  • brieliz
    VIP January 2017
    brieliz ·
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    I think the opinion on WW is it is similar to asking for cash.

    That being said, where I registered they automatically included that as an option and I never took it off, but I didn't add gift cards myself. I think gift cards at the places where you register are OK.

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  • Bemyguest
    Master April 2017
    Bemyguest ·
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    Agreed with Jessie, Felicia and Heather... It's not ideal.

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  • Danielle
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    Danielle ·
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    We registered at target and bed bath and beyond and got a looooot of gift cards to those places. Do lowes or Home Depot do registries?

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  • Ashley S.
    Super April 2018
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    @PABride yeah not straight up cash. Just cash in the form of a card. Makes no difference, it's still asking for money.

    OP, if you want to renovate, make your registry small and people will being you cards with cash inside.

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  • Meaghan
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    Meaghan ·
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    Do you know what you will want/need from lowes for the project? Sounds like a mixed bag on people's opinions (and I agree it's like asking for cash). Why not register through lowes or add the stuff you need to your amazon registry as they allow you to add outside products. This way you can side step the issue all together.

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  • Leah
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    Leah ·
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    It's basically the same thing as asking for cash. I saw some on a registry and side eyed it a little bit. Just like cash, people will give a gift card if they want to.

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  • Keisha
    Master September 2018
    Keisha ·
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    I don't get asking for gift cards. You will just end up with cards to random stores. It is not like you say I only want gift cards from Lowe's. So more than likely you will still have to put cash towards what ever you want

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  • OGJessieJV
    Master July 1867
    OGJessieJV ·
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    Now that being said, I have supplemented a gift with a gift card for a shower when I've gotten it on sale or wanted to purchase something else and it wasn't in stock. However, I will put in the card what I was going to purchase.

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  • Celia Milton
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    Nope. Give Me Money. Same message, different delivery.

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  • Molly
    Beginner December 2017
    Molly ·
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    Thanks for the honesty, everyone! We are hoping to replace our deck and back yard fencing next spring. Honestly, money would be best, but I'd never ask for it out right. So I see your point about gift cards. My future MIL asked one of my bridesmaids if my shower was going to be a fee shower. I would never, ever do that! That said, I think I'll keep the gift cards off the registry. Thanks, everyone!

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  • @brd2be
    Expert April 2018
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    I feel like someone side eyeing that is absurd. It doesn't bother me and I would not think twice if I saw it on a registry. If the only thing you 'registered' for was gift cards, that I think is kind of tacky but if your registry just says something like 'gift cards welcome' and you have a bunch of items, too I think that is perfectly fine.

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  • augustlawbride
    Expert August 2017
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    I think it really depends

    If there are plenty of other items and only a few gift cards to places that don't have registry options then I wouldn't really notice it. But if most of the registry was gift cards it reads too much like a honeyfund to me

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  • SJ
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    I love when people have gift cards! As a guest, I'm always one of those ppl who forget and then wait until the 11th hour to purchase something. So, by the time I log onto the list, there is never any fun stuff left. Yes, I know they put a frying pan on the list for a reason. BUT...I don't really want to know that I'm being associated with a stupid frying pan every time they cook salmon or eggs. I'd much rather get them a card.

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