Is it normal to be tired of your wedding?

I would not say I am "over it", but I am a point where I am not stressing over little things anymore. I have been planning it for a year and at this point I am just looking forward to it, I refuse to worry about anything, I just want to wake up on the day and have a good time.

I'm kinda over it. Everything is planned booked and deposited. Now it's just the lull until next spring/summer when the ball gets rolling again

I still have a ways to go, so I'm not at that point, however I feel in a lull. I don't have a lot to do right now as things are done. I'm not looking forward to the Holidays. Just want this year to be over. Once the new year hits I think it will be better and can refocus on wedding stuff. I do wish we would just get a heck of a lot closer though to the date.

Completely normal. I think these feelings will ebb and flow, but try to enjoy the process as much as possible. Before you know it, it will all be over in the blink of an eye.

I totally feel you. I'm 3 weeks away and I would love it if it was tomorrow. We've been planning for over a year and I'm over the stress too. I'm sick of my family bitching about how the venue should give us partial refund for those who RSVP and don't show up. They have barely paid for anything, yet they feel entitled to a refund? And I'm sick of seeing the bad side of people when it comes to our wedding inconveniencing them and making B.S. excuses on why they would come "if" we got married in summer like "normal people". We live in SoCal, the weather is better in the winter than in summer! 75 degrees in December vs 104 degrees in summer??? Ummm hello??? I joked with FH the other day and asked if we could just go get married at the court house now and get it over with. Then we remembered he is an only child and FMIL would kill us both repeatedly. Hang in there! Its almost over!

Yeup. The courthouse is looking better by the day.

I am SOOOO over it....I have only been engaged since August, and our wedding isn't until next August, but if I could just skip the wedding, and be married (but still get all the gifts, lol) I would.

I have never been that girl who always dreamed about her wedding, and I am still coming to terms with the fact that we are basically throwing tens of thousands of dollars out the window.

Sometimes I feel bad that I feel this way, but I can't help it. We are getting no help financially, and it kills me to know that both FH and I need new cars, I would like to finish my masters, we need a new washer and dryer....the list goes on, and these things can't happen because oh, we have to have a wedding.

Also, I don't care what my flower fillers are, or if the linens are going to be the same on every table...basically, all of the questions I am constantly bombarded with, are of no interest to me!

There, I said it, and now I feel better.....please don't judge!

I just want it over already. I tired to pawn off the rest to my mom, but she didn't go all Momzilla, bummer.

I am the day before you and yep, I am so over the wedding. I just want it to be here so we can be married and we can hop that plane to our honeymoon. I am also excited to have the week before the wedding for just FH and I (he took the week off and I am still looking for work).

I got tired of planning too, then after my rehearsal I was excited again and it was a wonderful day. Looking back, I'm so glad we did it; it was worth it.

I can totally understand why you would feel that way, but I'm not experiencing it myself. We always had it in our minds to keep things special and small, so I'm not dealing with a lot of the drama that other brides are dealing with. I decided against a bridal party because I saw how quickly that could cause drama and hurt feelings, and I'm a pretty savvy designer so all the rest came pretty easily to me. <3

I hope its normal, because I've been over it for a few weeks now! lol! i just want to be married and hit the beach! Sometimes I even wish we would have just eloped with a few of our close friends and family

Totally normal. it will still be awesome.

I been over it ! I asked FH last night could be just elope to Vegas.

The two weeks leading up to my wedding, I was just so done.. Then after my wedding, I was so glad it was over! I loved every minute of the wedding and it was a blast, and I loved planning (most of the time) but you come to a point where you just want it to be here, and be over.

I think it's totally normal. We are just ready to be married.

Yeah.. totally normal. I've been feeling like I'm so over it already lately. There have been a few disappointments, but I guess things change. I guess I'm really over the planning part. I just want to be married to FH already!

Its normal dont worry it will be over soon and then you will be sad! haha oh the mix of emotions

Totally normal. And I promise-- your day will be hectic, things will go wrong, but as long as you're married at the end, it'll be a good day, with lots of great memories. Hang in there-- you've almost made it!

Omg I am so with you!! I'm tired of people complaining (I'm sorry, are you paying/planning as much as me? no. so shut up). I'm tired of the constant phone calls to vendors to coordinate. I'm tired of the endless questions to me about food/décor/why didn't so and so get an invite/what is transportation/what is your hotel again? AAAAAAARRRGGHHH!!!

I can't wait until the Friday before the wedding for my spa day with my girls and I can just sit back and relax and hand over my phone and binder to someone else to deal with for those two days. So over it all!