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Just Said Yes October 2015

Is it normal that me and my Fiance are fighting 2 months before our wedding?

Kristina, on August 2, 2015 at 6:23 PM Posted in Planning 0 36

I am getting married to my Fiance on October 30th, 2015. At least that’s our plan. Me and my Fiance got in a fight tonight about how I don’t have my cell phone, because I left it at my apartment on accident. And he knew I didn’t have my cell phone before we left my apartment and he didn’t tell me to go up and get it. He just let his dad drive away without letting me get my cell phone before we left. He didn’t even ask me if I wanted to go get it, that’s what really pissed me off. And I am addicted to my cell phone so I was pissed. And when I asked him if I could use his cell phone he said “No” which I thought was incondsiderate as f***. So, I looked up “Is it normal for couples to fight a lot right before the wedding?” and I found this website in the google search results. Someone had posted a topic just like this and I got the idea from the replies that this is normal. But, I wanted to see if what me and my Fiance fought about is normal or a bad sign.

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Latest activity by ALH, on August 3, 2015 at 10:33 AM
  • FMM
    Master January 2016
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    Why did you post this twice?

    And I don't want to sound rude.. But that is the dumbest fight I have ever heard about. How old are you both of his dad had to come pick you up?

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  • Jemy
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    You sound like a child.

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  • Nicolette
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    Addicted to cell phone. Mad because FH wouldn't let you use his. His dad came and got you.

    Are you 15?

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  • OriginalKD
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    Adding my post here to consolidate the multiple threads:

    So...you are mad at your FH because you left your cell phone at home and he won't let you play with his?

    Maybe your FH didn't remind you because he would rather you pay attention to him than your phone.

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  • Heather A
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    I posted this on your other thread already, but you sound 15.

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  • Jersey
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    I'm sorry.... I am just as addicted to my phone as the next girl-- but if I forgot it at home, it wouldn't cause a fight between me and FH.... it's just not a big deal.

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  • P
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    I know that wedding stress can cause some fighting but the subject of this fight is ridiculous and not okay lol.

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  • Finally mrs.jkr
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    If anything I feel forgetting would cause a fight because I forget things all the time (and we occasionally argue about it) but this does sound very juvenile, and that's coming from a "baby bride" at 20 years of age. Have you guys done premarital counseling? I suggest it for everyone, but especially you from the feeling this post gives me.

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  • .
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    I feel like this is the newest jashley story.

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  • Finally mrs.jkr
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    Also, can you ladies provide a link for the other post(s)? I'm on mobile and it's terrible to navigate, but I can copy and paste a link on my phones browser

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  • Nicolette
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    Her double post was flagged already, if that's what you're referring to @finallymrs.jkr.

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  • OriginalKD
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    Hi Finally - The other posts were duplicates and were removed.

    @Stephanie - OP would need to step up her game to compete with Jashley. She was uncharacteristically response. However, I think this is a real bride.

    OP- FYI, please read the new to WW sticky on the forum homepage. Also, changing your avatar from the default rings to something else will help get more responses and associate you with being a real bride. We get quite a few trolls and spam around here. Changing it helps to distinguish you.

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  • MrsA
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    Mindless of the reason, partners fight at any given time....and sure it may be before the wedding. Couples can fight often over the wedding! Everyone is different, with their own thoughts, opinions, and pet peeves. You're going to rub each other the wrong way and do something to piss the other off from time to time. That's relationships. You just need to own it, get over it quickly and move on.

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  • chasity
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    Sorry I couldn't resist


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  • FutureMrsChang
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    You're mad because YOU forgot your cell and your FH didn't let you use his? Have you thought about maybe he just is sick of you always on your phone and wanted to spend time with you? I love to have my cell on me at all times, but I do run out of my house and forget it when I do errands and I honestly don't care. I even let it DIE! Lol. This is the dumbest fight I ever heard. I thought FH and I fight over stupid things like he is not allowed to eat my ice-cream and when he does I get annoyed, but we just tease each other. I think things like my ice-cream issue is really dumb, but never does it turn into a full on argument.

    Leave your cell phone alone. You know people have survived for hundreds of years without a phone glued to their hand.

    I honestly thought you were going to say you fighting over wedding budgets or something like that because weddings are stressful and they do seem to bring out the worst in people. So, fighting over your wedding is probably normal. Even other fights.. but a cell phone. I understand you can be annoyed YOU didn't grab it, but don't fight with your FH because he doesn't want to let you use his. If it isn't an emergency I promise you life will still be the same with our without your cell phone for a couple hours.

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  • Mrs. León
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    Lol @ chasity

    I have to agree with the others. Wedding planning can cause some stress but this seems like a childish fight.

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  • MrsButterflykisses
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    :/


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  • Ms2Mrs
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    ...


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  • Tinybutfeisty
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    Wait, why didn't you just say yourself that you needed to go grab something, why does he have to tell you to get it? And why can't you go out for bit without your phone? Also why did his dad pick you guys up? "Baby bride" here too (21) and this sounds very immature. Yes it's normal to argue but these seems like something that should have been over with 5 minutes after it started. Good luck...

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  • Alexis
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    ...Forgetting to grab your cell phone turns into a full blown fight?

    This just seems odd.

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