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Martine
Just Said Yes June 2015

Is it horrible that I'm NOT freaking out about my wedding??

Martine, on April 7, 2015 at 8:32 PM

Posted in Planning 31

Okay so we decided to divert from having a destination wedding about 7 months ago, and decided to have a reception. The venue we chose takes care of everything from place cards to limo to our photographer. I get nervous reading other brides freak out because I've really not had to do much planning...

Okay so we decided to divert from having a destination wedding about 7 months ago, and decided to have a reception. The venue we chose takes care of everything from place cards to limo to our photographer. I get nervous reading other brides freak out because I've really not had to do much planning for my wedding.

Is anyone else NOT freaking out and just kind of going with the flow?!

31 Comments

  • V
    Dedicated June 2015
    valerie ·
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    I planned my wedding in 5 months (well really 4 1/2 months). I'm doing the majority of the work from decorations, handmade invitations, booking everything separate,ect. I also have had really no help from my bridesmaids since they all live in different states from me. Seems like everyone else around me is freaking out and I'm the one saying it's fine everything will work out. If your not freaking out then it's a good thing. It means your organized, confident and have a clear mind of what you want and don't want. Some can handle evebts better than others

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  • Christine
    Super December 2015
    Christine ·
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    I feel like the wedding is the least stressful/most fun thing in my life, so no, you're not alone.

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  • Adoretamm
    Master May 2016
    Adoretamm ·
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    I think that's amazing that you aren't freaking out yet! Most brides freak out throughout the process.

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  • Mrs. A & J
    Master December 2014
    Mrs. A & J ·
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    Nope! I did the same. No freakouts. I enjoyed the planning process, and the few DIYs I did. Personally, I think all or mostly inclusive is the way to go!

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  • Nay0801
    VIP August 2015
    Nay0801 ·
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    Nope! I share the same date as some brides here and they seem to have everything together already, I don't even have invites yet! I also have no photographer, cake,Dj,flowers, centerpieces, shoes. ....

    basically I have my dress, venue, food....less than 4months out and I have A LOT to do. I have so much going on on my life stressing about my wedding can no longer occupy space in my life.I am more excited for the day than stressed..I know it will all fall into place.

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  • xograce
    Expert February 2015
    xograce ·
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    I don't think the stress really hit me until the few weeks before the wedding because my mind went into what-if world where I imagined a million different scenarios and tried to plan what I would do ..in case x, y, and z happens.

    Enjoy your engagement and I'm glad it's stress free for you so far Smiley smile

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  • OG Ruth
    Master October 2015
    OG Ruth ·
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    I haven't really stressed out over anything yet. I did have a mini meltdown when I had my heart set on certain centerpieces and couldn't get them but I got over it and we found something else.

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  • FutureMrsCrane
    Master October 2015
    FutureMrsCrane ·
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    FH and I are so relaxed and easy going with our planning. I think it has some people annoyed that we aren't off the wall crazy trying to get things done. We have had no drama, except for someone asking why they aren't in the wedding...

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  • MrsM.
    VIP April 2015
    MrsM. ·
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    I love our all-inclusive venue! 18 days out and I am stress free as everything is pretty much done, just left to anxiously wait for our day!

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  • S.W.
    Expert August 2015
    S.W. ·
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    I just posted how I'm in a "me things will be what they will be" phase.... We're doing the decor ourselves! Not all that stressed. If things don't turn out perfect that's cool.

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  • Brianna
    Expert May 2016
    Brianna ·
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    I haven't been freaking out either. I figure it's because I started everything so early and have kept organized. I kind of wonder when it will hit me though lol.

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