We are having our wedding at a local plantation and we were told we would be charged per head for everyone. That would include our 3 year old nieces and probably our toddler nephews. Is this normal? We do not want to pay full price for kids. I would not mind paying something since they would be there and may eat a little. But we are having a formal dinner for our reception and I seriously doubt kids this young will eat much if any. Is it normal to charge for kids this young?