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The New Mrs. B
Master May 2013

Is anyone having a more casual rehearsal dinner?

The New Mrs. B, on September 9, 2012 at 10:01 AM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 47

FH and I are paying for the whole wedding and we're thinking that the rehearsal dinner isn't a huge priority for us.. Of course, we want to thank our BP and close family for all of their help (and travel to the venue, which is several hours of driving for many of them), especially since they are...

FH and I are paying for the whole wedding and we're thinking that the rehearsal dinner isn't a huge priority for us..

Of course, we want to thank our BP and close family for all of their help (and travel to the venue, which is several hours of driving for many of them), especially since they are expected to spend money on their attire for our big day (although we are having the GM wear black suits and the BM wear a black cocktail dress of their choice). We are planning to spend $50-$75 per person for the BP gifts. But we are thinking of maybe just ordering pizza or subs or something from a cool local place and having some beer and dessert and whatnot at the condo that my parents are renting for the week of the wedding.

FH and I aren't super formal (although of course we love a nice meal at a restaurant and would LOVE to treat everyone to something nicer.. which is definitely still an option!) and were just thinking it would be more fun, laid back, and inexpensive this way!

Thoughts?

47 Comments

  • Alina
    VIP August 2012
    Alina ·
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    Ours was a very casual BBQ in a park. Smiley smile

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  • Mayra
    VIP September 2012
    Mayra ·
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    All we're doing is going to our venue to rehearse and coming back to my parents house for dinner...Nothing fancy we also just invited the wedding party and fh's grandma

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  • Serina
    Expert June 2013
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    I think casual is absolutely a great idea! You're already doing something nice for the wedding...I don't think people expect a lavish rehearsal dinner. I wish we had our venue for the day before or somewhere close to the venue that we could host a casual dinner but will probably have to do it at a restaurant. But I'm hoping to find a restaurant closeby that is cheap and casual.

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  • Sonia
    Devoted November 2012
    Sonia ·
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    Pizza and soda after we set up the church and fellowship hall....

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  • ShaTerra
    Super September 2012
    ShaTerra ·
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    Ours isn't a big deal either. We rented our church for $50 and doing our rehearsal and dinner there in regular clothes

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  • Married52113
    Super May 2013
    Married52113 ·
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    We are doing the same thing!

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  • Marie S. (aka Princess Leia)
    Master October 2012
    Marie S. (aka Princess Leia) ·
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    Oh I sooooo wanted to have our rehearsal dinner like yours... Some pizza, some sub trays and just chill with our closest family & friends at one of our homes but unfortunately FH wants it at a restaurant. I did manage to talk him into a "fun" place that is casual. Our wedding is black tie and at a hoitey toitey place and the thought of having to be proper two nights in a row was not appealing to me at all. Ahhh the power of compromise :-)

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