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Is anyone else so stressed out, they just want The we’d to be over with already?

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Futuremrsf, on March 15, 2019 at 7:20 PM

Don’t get me wrong, I don’t have any doubts about WHO I’m marrying. I love my fiancé very much. I want to get married. Or more specifically....I want to BE married. But I’ve found that the politics of planning a wedding and who gets invited to what, as well as all those devilish little details, have me telling myself “it’ll all be over soon”. People who haven’t gotten invitations are feeling insulted. I feel like my big day is already ruined. I just want it to be over with already. Can anyone relate?

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Pirate & 60s Bride · on March 18, 2019 at 1:55 PM
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Hang in there brides & grooms! I had breakdowns several times... the last 30 days were the toughest. It’ll all be worth it. But to help get to your magic day, set boundaries with friends & family (or just stop sharing details), ask your honey-pie for more help or hugs when you need ‘em, take walks to cool off, and skip details guests won’t notice or care about anyway (programs, favors, extra decor items that are small, etc).

Focus on looking/feeling good for your wedding! As long as there’s an officiant to marry you, a photographer & food/drinks, that’s all that matters for a wedding & great time. ❤️ ❤️
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Mrs. C · on March 18, 2019 at 3:41 PM
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YES OH MY GOODNESS A THOUSAND TIMES YES!! I DESPISE the drama that naturally comes with weddings and planning. I am so sick and tired of it. I know all the planning and time and effort spent on the day will be worth it but its the extra added "crap" (to put it nicely) that has come along with it that I am so OVER!! Like for example.....someone I invited for my mom's sake who I haven't seen in years recently gets a significant other (whom I have never met before in my life) and just flat out asks if she can have a plus one......ummm.... no. -_- Its little stuff like that or someones feelings being hurt that they weren't invited, that adds up REALLY fast.
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Mrs. Cohen · on March 18, 2019 at 4:12 PM
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I can 100% relate. I had so many breakdowns before our October 2018 wedding. I can't even tell you how many times we just almost called the entire wedding off to just elope. We had so many non-refundable deposits though that we kept trekking forward, but the closer it got the more I was thinking to myself, "I just want to get our wedding day over with so we can go enjoy the honeymoon in newlywed bliss". Probably the last 2 months before the wedding I had very little excitement for our wedding day, but was completely excited for our honeymoon.
I will say though, as stressed as I was and as many meltdowns as I had, our wedding day ended up being so amazing. Yes, there were things that went wrong during our wedding, some of which were big things (like the DJ completely forgetting our first dance), but none of that really mattered; we were just so excited to be married and surrounded by friends & family we don't regularly get to see
Keep your chin up! I know it's super tough and stressful, but you'll be so happy once the big day is here!
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