My FH is an engineer... I say this because usually it is a great way to paint a picture for someone on how he is. He is absolutely amazing-- but not very "emotional" in the sense that he can't verbalize it (or at least in a "typical" way). I asked him to help pick out our ceremony and he is just, "eh" with the ceremony words our officiate sent us. I don't want him to be "eh", I want it to mean something to him, to us. He said, "I'm not going to remember what the vows were, I am going to remember how I felt in that moment and looking at you". Of course, I lost it. I don't know how to find a ceremony that isn't "cheesy" to him or one that he will REMEMBER (and he won't write his vows because he is an awful writer).
Help? lol
