Is 4 o'clock too late?

Mine ended at 1030, and I was worried about it dying down early but honestly it was still going strong. I probably could have done until 11.

Our ceremony start time is 4pm as well and we’re having the reception in the same building and ending everything at 10pm. We aren’t huge partiers and I know we’ll be exhausted by then anyways, so completely good with it. We have to have everything cleaned and out by 11pm. I think it’ll be plenty of time!

I am interested in what others have to say here. My ceremony strarts at 3pm, cocktail hour starts at 4:15. I have to be out of the venue completely by 12am so my reception will wrap up at 11-11:30p. Which is plenty late for me. I feel it may wrap up closer to 10 (just knowing my crowd). I feel like this is plenty long as it will be a really long day. My mom however thinks that 11pm is too early and she wants to (and thinks others will to) continue the party. I told her I would find a place for people to go and meet up after, but I told her I am not promising me and my FH will go. As I think I'll be tired by then.

Our ceremony starts at 5pm, cocktail hour from 6-7 and reception from 7-12am. May do something afterwards or go home to sleep 😊

View Quoted Comment I was a bridesmaid in a wedding that had an afterparty hotel bar and Denny’s trip! It was super fun experience and really added to my memories. However on my wedding day I was exhausted! After we loaded up what we were taking and got to the hotel, we started to read cards and we both fell asleep after two of them.

if you have to be out by midnight I wouldn’t end later than 11. We ended at 1030 but everyone lingered chatting with us or each other. And then there was clean up and packing up so we were gone around 1130.

Oh and when I say clean up I really mean retrieving personal items as the venue was doing the actual cleaning up. So my timeframe doesn’t include any actually cleaning.

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See I wanted to start at 5:00 but my mom said that's too late. lol

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My FH and the groomsmen are super parties, so we will probably need up going to the bars near the venue after. I think 11:00 is a good end time. It can give time for our parents to do minor cleaning and collect any decor, so they don't have to be rushed.

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Yeah I was think 11:00 so our parents can get the decor and gifts and not be/feel rushed. Thank you for your input.

I'm getting married at 4:30 and my reception ends at 11pm. I think this is plenty of time.

We are able to go in the next morning to grab our decor and finish cleaning up, though. Maybe you can ask to do that so your party can last longer?

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Are you having a cocktail hour? Clean up is included. So all we have to do is get decor, and gifts which our parents will get.

Wedding receptions around my area usually end about midnight and they have an after party somewhere else. That should be plenty of time for everyone to have a great time.

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Yes, ceremony 4:30-5, cocktail hour 5-6, guests are seated at 6, bridal party entrance and first dance 6:15, dinner and toasts 6:15-7:15, cake at 7:15, father daughter/mother son dance at 7:20, then dancing until 11.

As a guest, I personally hate when weddings start really early (like 1-2pm) because then I'm basically spending the whole day with you, which can also feel really long to a guest. Unless you're close family or I'm traveling and I'm already in town, I prefer later weddings.

We are also doing ceremony and reception in the same location. Ceremony starts at 5, (it will only be 30min) then cocktail hour for pictures and reception to start at 630ish. And we have to be out by midnight, so wrap up about 11. But knowing our family, everyone will probably head back to our house for a longer night! Not too sure how excited I feel about that. Lol

Mines is starting at 4:30 reception ending at 11:30 .4 is a good time

This is a good question and is helpful to read through all the comments. Our ceremony starts at 3, reception at 5. We are doing 5 hours open bar (maybe 6 as it’s open through dinner and begins at 3:30 for cocktail hour) so ours should end at around 9:30

Generally, when the ceremony is at the same venue as the reception, plan for 6 hours total.

We're planning to start our ceremony at 4 and the whole shebang will end at 9. It's a 5 hour block, which we think is perfectly fine for our Sunday date.

We're having our ceremony and reception at the same venue on a Friday evening (in our hometown but most of our guests will be working that day). Our ceremony is set to start at 6 pm and we have to be out by 12 also. I was worried it wasn't enough time but wanted to be respectful of our guests who have to work so we're just going to make it work. I think you'll have plenty of time.

My ceremony is 6 and reception is ending at 9:30. That’s three hours of food and dancing and I honestly think that’s all I need. However, we aren’t drinking — maybe people like to stay later when there is an open bar.