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Amanda
Master January 2017

Is 25-30 minute drive too far between ceremony and reception?

Amanda, on June 7, 2016 at 9:16 AM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 21

Our reception is taking place in an area that is not a large city, but we're getting married in the Catholic Church so we've been looking for one near the reception venue but we only have 3 choices and they are all ridiculously hard to get ahold of, and so far we've had no luck with booking despite multiple calls and emails. So we recently found a beautiful church in a nearby city which has the date open and is easily reached by email and phone, but it is about 25-30 minutes away from the reception venue. Is that too far?

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Latest activity by Katie, on June 9, 2016 at 3:33 PM
  • Nonna T
    Master April 2014
    Nonna T ·
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    Not at all Smiley smile

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  • ATLBride
    Expert November 2016
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    As a guest, I would be ok with that. Just make sure the hotel is close to the reception venue for any OOT guests if you can.

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  • Faye
    Dedicated August 2016
    Faye ·
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    Our ceremony is about the same distance from our reception site as yours, so we have opted to have buses transport people to and from the ceremony site. We are also having a cocktail hour at the ceremony so it lets people have a few drinks and not worry about driving.

    If its in the budget I would look into offering transportation for the distance, but if its not possible I don't think it's an outrageous distance.

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  • Emily O.
    VIP June 2016
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    I don't think so. Mine will have to drive about 20-25

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  • Sarah380
    Devoted September 2016
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    We are getting married at my hometown church which is 30 min from reception venue. I wish it was closer but I think it's ok. It was important to get married in the church I grew up in!

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  • FreshToDeathAng
    Master September 2016
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    I think 30 minutes is about the maximum. Mine is about 20-25 minutes and I wish it were closer, but I think it's okay. We're offering transportation for our guests.

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  • MrsND
    Master November 2016
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    I don't think it's too bad. Our actual parish is super far from everyone so we went with one closer to the city. Ours is about a 20min distance.

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  • Loganna
    Super October 2016
    Loganna ·
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    I think 30 mins is alright. I even went to one that was 40 minutes, which was a little long, but even that was still tolerable for everyone. I second making sure that the hotel is near the reception venue, and if you could afford to offer some transportation from the hotel to the ceremony and back, I think that would be a nice touch for OOT guests, especially those under 25 who may have trouble renting cars, etc.

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  • Rachel DellaPorte
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    I wouldn't complain at all.

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  • LaKita P
    Expert August 2016
    LaKita P ·
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    25 mins is ok but any thing over 30 mins? Nope! Lol but U should be fine!

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  • Future Mrs. Webb!
    Master October 2017
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    That's not that bad. Just make sure there aren't any big events going on that day (like a football game or anything) that would impede traffic.

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  • Jacqui76
    Master May 2016
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    My cousin got married in a Catholic Church and then we drove a while, probably 30-45 minutes, to get to the reception. Totally worth it- they had the most beautiful wedding I have ever been too. I don't think anyone complained.

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  • MrsPettit
    Super May 2016
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    As long as the reception is closer to where people will be living/staying, then it's no big deal. I only have a problem when it's like 30 minutes to church, 30 minutes to reception, 30 minutes home. That's too much driving for an "in town" wedding.

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  • Mrs. Knolle
    Master July 2016
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    Sounds fine.

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  • LadyPearl
    VIP November 2016
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    30 should be the max. My reception venue will be about 20 minutes from the ceremony venue. OOT guests will be staying either closer to the reception or about midway between the two locations.

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  • brieliz
    VIP January 2017
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    When I was at pre-cana there was a couple who is making their guests drive from the Catholic Church in my hometown to a reception on a boat - its about 1 hr 15 minutes in between not including traffic - and the boat is near NYC so there will be traffic. That seemed too far to me. You should be fine. I think people who go to church weddings expect to travel to the reception since it isn't at the same spot, and how many reception areas are right next to churches- I think 25-30 min is fine.

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  • MrsBBR
    Super January 2017
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    You should be fine! Ours will probably take about 25 minutes if there is winter weather (high probability of that). I made sure our reception venue was close to hotels (ours will shuttle!) and easy to navigate back home from for both sides to make traveling easier for our OOT guests.

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  • L&B<3
    Savvy May 2018
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    I think that is perfectly reasonable!

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  • Miss.MtoMrs..K
    Master October 2016
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    My ceremony is about 20-25min from reception. The only reason the hotel we chose is closer to my ceremony vs reception is because there wasn't any around my reception.

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  • Laura
    Master September 2017
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    Nope I think its fine.

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