Is 12 yr old flower girl ok

I think that 12 is a little old. Better as a Jr. Bridesmaid.

Who cares their age, I've seen online where they had grandmothers be flower girls. If thats where theyll fit into your wedding the best then do it.

I don't see anything wrong with it plus they will do exactly what you want . I am not having no kids less then 5 at my bridal party to avoid certain headaches.

My flower girl is my 9 year old niece.. do what makes you happy

I have 3. My two daughters, ages 5/9 and my grandma age 75!

My FHs niece will be 11 for our wedding which I figured would be too old. I'm going to ask her mother which she would prefer!

I'm having 2 & they're 23. Do what you want girl. Forget the "traditions".

We used my husbands niece who was 9!!! It was perfect... she was old enough to get what was going on and the importance but yet she could still have a cut dress!!!!

I think it would depend on how old your ring bearer is. However I do think 12 is a little old....unless there is another boy around the same age that you want to use as a ring bearer.

Nothing wrong with her being 12, my cousin had her grandma be her flower girl.