I work in a small group of people that is rapidly growing. I've worked with 4 of them for 3 years. One works from home and I never see them,one is my mentor, one is my new boss and semi- friend and one is my friend whom I often see outside of work.
We just recently hired two additional people. I was thinking initially I'd invite the whole team, but now that we're growing (and expecting to hire 3 more before my wedding day) I'm uncertain.
Is it okay to just invite the 3 that I'm close to? I make sure not to talk about the wedding at work and all that, but I worry about people feeling slighted afterward.
My coworker that's my friend is also getting married next year and only planning on inviting me and said not to stress it. Just invite who I want. But somehow that feels rude to me.
Has anyone else dealt with this type of situation as a bride or coworker who did/didn't get invited? What was your experience?