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Desiree
Just Said Yes August 2022

Inviting non married significant others

Desiree, on September 29, 2020 at 6:56 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 24

I’m in a dilemma. I have 3 sisters which live with a domestic partner but not married. I want My wedding to be only 20 people. With that being said how do I effectively tell my sisters that there only invited without hurting their feelings that there partners aren’t invited. 20 people is all I can...
I’m in a dilemma. I have 3 sisters which live with a domestic partner but not married. I want My wedding to be only 20 people. With that being said how do I effectively tell my sisters that there only invited without hurting their feelings that there partners aren’t invited. 20 people is all I can afford and I want those 20 people to be our friends and immediate family only.
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  • P
    January 2014
    Pam ·
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    There are cultures all over the world were the people that attend are only the family or like family.

    Yes, but unless she belongs to one of those cultures, it's rude to leave out half of a couple, especially her sisters' SOs.

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  • Jasmine
    Devoted May 2021
    Jasmine ·
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    *all weddings are not the same*
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  • Emily
    Expert September 2020
    Emily ·
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    While I agree, I usually go back to the OP's post in these. it seemed like they were requesting advice on whether people at large thought this was rude. The majority seems to be - yeah, it's pretty rude.
    If you're in this situation, and you know what you can afford, and you know that your family is going to respond just fine to not inviting significant others -- you probably aren't going to post to ask people's opinions in the first place.
    I do respect posts when people ask for only encouragement or only positive comments vs input or criticism. This didn't seem to be one of those, so I provided it.
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  • Cassidy
    VIP October 2017
    Cassidy ·
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    If 20 people is all you can afford, then my biggest suggestion is to find a way to include them. It is rude not to.


    If it’s all you can afford, fine, just be prepared for some ruffled feathers, because it’s rude.
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