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alexandra
Just Said Yes October 2016

Inviting future MIL and SIL to lingerie shower???

alexandra, on March 21, 2016 at 9:01 PM

Posted in Etiquette and Advice 21

Hi everyone! Just to introduce myself--I'm Alex, and I am getting married to my wonderful fiancé, Matthew, on October 1, 2016. We are having a private ceremony and then throwing an after-party with all of our friends to celebrate. Recently, a few of my friends offered to throw my lingerie shower. We...

Hi everyone! Just to introduce myself--I'm Alex, and I am getting married to my wonderful fiancé, Matthew, on October 1, 2016. We are having a private ceremony and then throwing an after-party with all of our friends to celebrate.

Recently, a few of my friends offered to throw my lingerie shower. We started coming up with a tentative guest list, and one of my friends suggested I invite my future MIL and SIL to the shower. I was planning on having my mom and sisters there (we're all very close), but I didn't even consider his family!

I'm completely mortified at the thought having my future MIL and SIL there. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but at the same time, I don't want it to be weird, either.

Thoughts?

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  • JaKLyn
    Master November 2015
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    I'm close enough to my SIL that I'd be fine having her at something like that. My mom and MIL on the other hand would be a completely different story.

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