Inviting future MIL and SIL to lingerie shower???

So weird. I couldn't. I think I would die of embarrassment with my MIL there.

Date twin!! I can see them going to it if they are kind of fun young based ya know? Im sure you can ask them what they think and get a feel for if they want to go

I would also find that super awkward. I think it's ok to not invite them. It's not like it's a normal shower. I would think they'd understand.

They're definitely fun ladies, but I am VERY easily embarrassed! I asked FH about it, hoping that he'd be embarrassed for me to invite them. I was really wanting to put the blame on him (ha!), but he was like, "Oh, no, you can totally invite them! They'd be cool about it!"

I would rather live the rest of my life under my kitchen table than have my FMIL watch me open lingerie and the other gifts that are given at a lingerie shower. She's really fun, but I don't want her seeing the things I'm going to wear when I have fun with her son.

I would say not to invite! Sounds awkward and uncomfortable for them to sit through!!

I'm sure it won't be as awkward as you think. Just don't make a big deal about it and you should be fine. And if it is really an issue then ask them if they would be offended if you didn't invite them. My sister got some skimpy lingerie from her MIL at her egular shower and just said thanks and moved on.

I wouldn't care at all to have FSIL there! My FMIL though....

I wouldn't. It'd be super awkward for everyone...

I could handle FSIL, but FMIL no. I'd feel like I'd have to hold back.

Depends on your relationship with them...I'd invite mine

I'm going with, don't do it if you feel uncomfortable.

I would feel a little awkward but no more awkward then having my own mom there. I would invite them, better a little awkward then having hurt feelings in my opinion

I wouldn't feel awkward with FMIL or my mom being there. FMIL knows how to have fun and I'm not embarrassed that I have a sex life (with her son).

If you feel really uncomfortable and that you won't enjoy yourself, then don't feel obligated to invite them.

I've never actually heard of a "lingerie" shower. Is this a separate thing from a bridal shower? Every bridal shower I've ever been to the bride usually opened a few sexy lingerie pieces.

No no no no no no!

You're going to be looking at and receiving sexy things to wear to bed with their son/brother.

Awwwwkwarddddd!

They can go to a general shower lol.

Im the same way, I would be embarrassed too. Good luck!

It really depends on your situation/relationship with your FMIL and FSIL. I personally would be horrified however, one of my friends invited her FMIL to her lingerie party and it wasn't weird at all for her because they are so close and she had been with her FH for a LONG time.

You seem to be in the same boat as me and a lot of other brides commenting on this post so I would suggest not inviting her. She probably won't even care if she didn't get invited due to the fact that she might feel awkward attending as well.

I could handle FSIL, but definitely not FMIL - but for some people either are totally fine. I think if you're feeling this weird just at the thought of it you shouldn't invite them. Save it for a regular shower.

I invited my FSILs to my B-party. My gifts were very raunchy. My FSILs fit right in and got me some pretty risqué stuff. It depends on the relationship. We're super close.

Personally, I would not feel comfortable with my mom or FMIL at a lingerie shower. I think of you feel this way about having your FMIL or FSIL at yours, you should just not put them on the invite list.