My FH family is freaking huge and majority of them all have kids. We decided for budget we can't afford everyone so we're doing an adults only. I'm going to kindly put on the invitation the people im inviting and don't include the children.
My question is has anybody ever had these people show up with the kids anyhow? Or show up with guests that weren't invited? How does that work with catering? Because I normally give the caterer a guest count.
I'm trying my best to not be rude with it but emphasize NO KIDS or PLUS ONES that aren't invited.
Tell me your stories and how you handled it 
