So my FH was awesome, he was off of work for a few months and his company ended up closing their doors. Good news is that he found a new job and it's in his field. So while he was off he tried to do stuff around the house and cooked dinner most nights; at this rate I won't remember how to cook lol. He also took it upon himself to get the invites ready for the wedding. What he didn't realize was that I wanted to number the backs of the RSVP's in case one came back without a name. I came home one day and he had them all done and ready to go, and sealed. I didn't want to tell him what i originally was planning on doing since I could tell he was proud of getting them done. I figured even if they forget to put their names on it, hopefully they put a return address on it. Well we got one back with neither. It's still early so I'm hoping I can just do process of elimination. Also figured out who's RSVP would come through that post office for being stamped. So hopefully I can figure it out. Either just number them. I wish I would have said something. Luckily I think I only have 7 RSVP's coming from that area; we have 2 already and then the mystery 1. So now just to wait it out. I guess my advice would be just number them lol.