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Invite Officiant to Reception?

Kimberly, on July 8, 2017 at 2:20 PM Posted in Etiquette and Advice 0 25

We are getting married at a church and having the reception at another location. Is it customary to ask the officiant and his wife to the reception?

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Latest activity by na&na, on July 10, 2017 at 1:43 PM
  • A.Magill.Since.May
    Master May 2018
    A.Magill.Since.May ·
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    We are but Idk if it's common if it's not someone like the religious leader in your community who you know well outside of the wedding business.

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  • emily
    Expert July 2017
    emily ·
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    We are, but it's because we've known him for almost 20 years.

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  • Jayme
    Super October 2017
    Jayme ·
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    We are. He is our pastor though so it may be different for others.

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  • Kathy
    Master July 2010
    Kathy ·
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    Yes, you should invite them. Many officiants will decline, but it is good it extend the invitation.

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  • Valerieee
    Dedicated September 2018
    Valerieee ·
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    We are definitely inviting our priest! I figured this was customary but may depend on your religion.

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  • Teri
    VIP May 2017
    Teri ·
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    We did. They enjoyed the reception.

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  • Lynn
    Expert September 2017
    Lynn ·
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    We are, but he confirmed us and we've known him for several years.

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  • s
    Expert July 2017
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    Of all the weddings I've officiated I've only been invited to the reception once.

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  • Cass
    VIP August 2017
    Cass ·
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    We are but maybe that's because we have known her for several years

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  • Nancy Taussig
    Nancy Taussig ·
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    If it is your pastor, etc., yes. You've had and will have a relationship with him/her.

    If it is an officiant who you've hired for the ceremony, it is not necessary. Sometimes I'm invited, but I usually have other plans (sometimes another wedding).

    Same goes for rehearsal dinner.

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  • M
    Devoted March 2018
    MsGem ·
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    Nope

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  • Danielle
    Devoted September 2017
    Danielle ·
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    We extended an invite to our officiant and he's just a pro we hired for the day. I think it's nice to extend an invite even if you aren't close. Their job is the most important of the day.

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  • Chanta
    Expert July 2017
    Chanta ·
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    We're doing it i think it courtesy.

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  • karen
    Master October 2017
    karen ·
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    I think courteous. Do you plan on attending this church in the future? Do your parents attend there?

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  • MrsSki
    Master April 2017
    MrsSki ·
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    We did, because our pastor is a family friend and not just a vendor. We attend the church, so I couldn't imagine not inviting him to the celebration too

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  • Doty
    Expert June 2017
    Doty ·
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    We invited our pastor since she is very close to us. It was a pleasure having her there with us on our special day.

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  • Celia Milton
    Celia Milton ·
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    If it's your family pastor or rabbi, of course. If it's someone like me, it's a courtesy, (and most of my couples and/or venues will invite me) but I never stay for more than a little of cocktail hour (and I never want anyone to pay for a dinner for me in $$$ NJ.....)

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  • Tabatha
    Super August 2017
    Tabatha ·
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    Yes! We're inviting him to our rehearsal dinner also! He's our family pastor so he's kinda a family friend

    I would still invite him, if you do t know him he might not go but it's nice to invite at least

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  • AnnieL
    VIP June 2017
    AnnieL ·
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    We did. He stayed for a bit of cocktail hour but I think the gesture was appreciated.

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  • Reeves
    Super September 2017
    Reeves ·
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    Ours is actually going to sing at our reception also Smiley smile

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