Invitation Phrasing

Hi all! (Sorry in advance for the long post!)

So I’m going back and forth on how to phrase my invitations (I’m designing my own). My mother said that she hates how I phrased them, because I didn’t go the super-traditional route.

She would like them to say the names of the parents, specifically the bride’s parents (she doesn’t care if we mention groom’s parents) for example:

Mr. and Mrs. D invite you to the wedding of their daughter,
Megan, to Nicholas,
Son of Mr. and Mrs. D.

FH and I just don’t like this phrasing for a number of reasons. I realize that it acknowledges the parents and I want to do that, but I think the wording is a little old school for both of us.

I went for a simpler version (don’t worry we’ll use full names):

Together with their parents,
Megan and Nicholas D
invite you to join them as they exchange wedding vows

Like I said, my mother HATES it. She wants her name on the invitation. She wants that specific phrasing, and thinks I’m being rude and tacky, which is not what I’m going for!

She told me that if I’m not going to put her name on the invitations, then I should just rephrase it to this:

You are joyfully invited to the wedding celebration of...

Which is nice, but it’s definitely not “honoring the parents” if that’s what she’s concerned about.

I’ve done research on other invitations and a lot of them have similar phrasing. Is this something that’s changing with the times, or am I just wrong?