Introverted Groom, slightly concerned

My FH is very anxious about being in front of people and has already had a few near panic attacks thinking about the ceremony! He was scared at first about the e-pics too but he ended up having so much fun playing in the snow and our photographer is amazing that she made us both laugh all day so he forgot she was even there and our e-pics turned out great. I am a little worried about how he'll act during the ceremony, but I hope that he will be so focused on me that he'll forget about everyone else. We probably won't do a first dance. . .that might be asking too much!

He might just shock you and be more social on that day especially if he knows people are happy for him.

Diagnosed General Anxiety Disorder and self proclaimed introvert! I was so nervous to walk down the aisle and to dance with all eyes on me that I have numerous panic attacks at the thought of it. Other than me staring and the floor the entire time I walked down the aisle, I didn't have a single problem. I had a great time and I didn't care about anyone looking at me for the rest of the day.

LOL did I write this? My fiance is also super introverted and prone to social anxiety, and I'm quite nervous about how he's going to act on the day of. (I, on the other hand, have anxiety in other areas, like being worried when people are upset that they're upset with me.) TBH I'll probably just make sure that we have a few drinks before the wedding, because that usually helps him relax. I would actually be really disappointed if our first look doesn't include a shot of some kind of alcohol!

@Audrey, I have the same thing about thinking people are mad at me. It's terrible.

Also, diagnosed anxiety and bipolar, but it gets worse. I was trying to wean off my current meds and onto baby friendly meds before the wedding, but the ONLY baby friendly bipolar med I could take was going to cost. $3000/month on my current insurance. So I tried to go back fully onto my old meds, but was denied by my doctor because, "we have come all this way and I don't want you to back track and have to do it again." So I am on 1/3 of the medicine I actually need and will be switching doctors and fixing this after we are married and I'm signed up for his military insurance.

We are in the same boat. My FH is very introvert and will not attend social functions unless I go. I have the same nerves. I am hoping that my FH has a few beers and loosens up a bit! He's prettyyyy extroverted when he's had a beer or two :-)