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Beginner September 2017

Interfaith Wedding Readings- Catholic/Buddhist

Elizabeth, on July 21, 2017 at 9:51 PM

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Hello WW! I am hesitant to post at all, after having been drug through the dirt after posting in another forum about this. However, I need helpful advice and not attacks of criticism. I am due to be wed end of September. He is Catholic, in the sense that he occasionally goes to Mass. I am a Buddhist...

Hello WW! I am hesitant to post at all, after having been drug through the dirt after posting in another forum about this. However, I need helpful advice and not attacks of criticism.

I am due to be wed end of September. He is Catholic, in the sense that he occasionally goes to Mass. I am a Buddhist (nonreligious).

Now it has come time to pick our readings/songs/etc. for the wedding. It will not be a full Mass, since I am not Catholic, but apparently is still considered Catholic. (Yet the priest says it won't count for his sacrament of marriage... so I don't know how that works.)

I really wanted to have contemporary readings (other than the Gospel of course) for the ceremony. The priest originally made me feel comfortable about the wedding being able to be tailored so I can feel comfortable during the ceremony.. however he then handed us a book with things to choose from.

Has anybody else been successful in using cont. readings in a "Catholic" ceremony?

Thanks in advance!

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    Beginner September 2017
    Elizabeth ·
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    So for those still wondering... He okayed the substitution but suggested we just add a third reading. He said, "As long as we have the Gospel, I feel no issue with the request."

    So there you have it.

    We are also most likely writing our own vows. Surprisingly, the FH's idea.

    Nancy- we actually have that exact quote to be printed in the programs! Great minds.

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  • augustlawbride
    Expert August 2017
    augustlawbride ·
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    If it's important to your partner have your priest talk to the bishop. There's a special dispensation that can be given for it to count as the sacrament between a non-Christian and a Catholic.

    Most churches will limit it to classical and/or religious music and Biblical readings. Even if it is not a full mass, these restrictions still usually apply.

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    Just Said Yes March 2020
    Raven ·
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    Omg I'm in the SAME boat, same religions, I'm so grateful for this post!

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  • Sagan
    Super July 2017
    Sagan ·
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    We were able to have DH's siblings read the Irish Wedding Blessing. The deacon who married us was very laid back.

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