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Dedicated October 2019

I'm so over it. i can't wait for this whole thing to be done.

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Madison, on September 19, 2019 at 6:17 PM

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I'm sick of planning..I'm sick of FH suddenly being "stressed" and not helping (and what was he really helping with before? Not much), I'm sick of poor friends asking us for rides to and from the airport. I'm sick of relatives asking me about what they should wear and what their kids (who I didnt in ite by the way) should wear. I'm sick of being asked stupid details like what version of the bible my cousin should read 1st Corinthians from (I'm not even religious that's just for my grandparents). I'm sick of my mom. I'm sick of my dad. I'm sick of having to be the only person capable of using Google. I'm sick of sending out spreadsheets and itineraries only to be mocked and ridiculed. I'm sick of cousins calling me tacky behind my back. I'm honestly very close to taking the honeymoon tickets and going to Cancun with the cat. (End rant)

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Dedicated October 2019
Jamie · on September 20, 2019 at 10:56 AM
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Same, girl, same! I'm so over all of it. If I have to make one more decision or plan I might lose it.
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Taylor · on September 20, 2019 at 3:06 PM
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People legit do not understand what it's like to be a bride. It seems like a lot of fun... until everyone has their own opinion on how to do things. I literally stopped telling people what was going on because I was sick of getting their two cents. My FH has been using the "I'm tired of talking about this. Every conversation we have is about this" excuse. Okay... but you wanted the wedding. Not me. My parents are very uninterested in being apart of anything that they do not agree with. They think a wedding is dumb to spend money on so they are not helpful. They gave me some money, which I appreciate, but they do not want a part in helping me make choices. It's all incredibly frustrating.
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Taylor · on September 20, 2019 at 3:12 PM
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My exact thoughts girl! I'm doing this for my fiance and his family. My parents think it's dumb to waste money on it and I am also having a hard time wrapping my mind around the price tag. I'd love a wedding if I were independently wealthy BUT i'm not and I could think of a million other things to drop $25k on. That being said, if I'm doing it, it needs to be done the way I want it done because it is my money. SO if you don't want to cough up the cash, I respectfully decline from hearing your opinion.
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Super October 2019
Cassi · on September 20, 2019 at 3:19 PM
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My FH was this exact way! Early on the best time to get all the planning done I would ask him for opinions after work and he would freak out and be like he needs to unwind first before getting into all of it and this and that. So I just stopped talking about it and planning on my own except the parts I truly needed him for. Then he talks about how broke he is because of this wedding (I'm paying for about 65% of it) and I make less money than him. He tells me everyday he can't wait to just be married and quit worrying about the wedding... I'm like BIHHHHHHHH lol what have you worried about you haven't helped with anything lol

In his defense though he didn't want a wedding he wanted to elope but did the wedding because he knew thats what I wanted. Guys suck sometimes ahaha
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Jennifer · on September 20, 2019 at 3:24 PM
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😂💯
The issue I'm having is that we have many guests who are bullies/rude who do things like slip a vendor bank roll to listen to them instead. I'll leave my own wedding. I will literally just walk out and figure out who I can sue for the financial damage later lolol (probably no one).

I have one major, deeply rooted request that I have made regarding no playing of mummers music. I won't bore you with that crazy rant, but I find it tacky and cheap and I have said I would never have it at my wedding. FH is on board and agrees 100%. Meanwhile I have guests telling me "too bad" it's going to happen. I can't even fathom why anyone would want to enrage the bride (and groom in this case) on their special day, but this is what I'm dealing with.
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