So, I've been lurking here for a while as an anon, but tonight I just got slapped with reality and I really need some advice.
I'm not excited for my wedding or honeymoon anymore. Let me say that I adore my fiance and can't wait to marry him, but I'm 100% over the wedding/honemoon fights we get in. I mean, this is supposed to be fun right? He freaks out about every penny we spend on the wedding (which will end up being about $11,000 USD) and now he's flipping about a trip we already agreed on and that his mom (my fmil) wants to pay for. We're going to Disney (he's been, I haven't) but the last time he went was like a decade ago and OF COURSE prices inflated. So the trip is apparently going to be around $7,500 USD, everything included. He wants to instead go to Europe and he apparently found a travel package for like $4,000 USD not including food. But the package and honestly the whole trip seems like something we would do with his mom, very tourist-y and not really a honeymoon. Lots of driving/traveling. So he agreed to Disney again, but he's obviously upset about the money and I told him we could just not do either and go somewhere like California or New York instead- both places he expressed wanting to go to. He said no, and now I'm not looking forward to anything. I wish we could just elope and do a staycation- I know no matter what we do he's going to complain about money and it just kills the fun for me.
Sorry for the long post, any advice would be appreciated.
