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Cassi
Super October 2019

If you could do it again?

Cassi, on June 19, 2019 at 1:45 PM

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Calling all Brides past and future! If you could plan you wedding again what would you change? How much time did you leave yourself for planning? What would you have started earlier/later if you had to do it all again? Personally I wouldn't have worried as much about booking vendors too early...

Calling all Brides past and future! If you could plan you wedding again what would you change? How much time did you leave yourself for planning? What would you have started earlier/later if you had to do it all again?


Personally I wouldn't have worried as much about booking vendors too early because it was that much more time to pay off. I'm still 4 months away from our date and we are budgeting hardcore and not spending any extra money so we can make sure its all paid off in time. Its not unmanageable (together FH and I make a pretty decent living) but it sucks not having the ability to go do things because we are worried about having enough money to pay everything off.

I would have just put as much down on things as I could in the get go instead of saying no its too early this and that. I would have also planned centerpieces and flowers and everything earlier so I wouldn't be scrambling to add them in our budget. We ended up doing sola wood flowers which I love but I didn't know what I was getting into so I have had to make multiple orders not realizing how much it actually takes to make things. But those are just minor details ultimately it all comes back to money ahha!

I started planning 14 months prior to our date but didn't actually book any vendors besides my venue and photographer until March. I booked those a year in advance because its their busy season in October where we are getting married so those were the first two things with dates filling up. I also bought my dress in november which sucked because anticipation but glad because it needed to be ordered. It came in in April and I just paid it off a few weeks ago and have plenty of time for alterations if needed! Smiley smile


Lets hear yours!

27 Comments

  • Cassi
    Super October 2019
    Cassi ·
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    Yeah I have contemplated this thought... I actually make decent money but I HATE my job but would be too afraid to leave before the wedding because of financial uncertainties.. FH is actually the same way.. him and I both plan on finding new jobs after the wedding though. I love the planning but I have this urge to just be at the date! I did a lot of DIY stuff and I almost finished it all (and I still have 4 months Smiley sad till we tie the knot... well 3 1/2) and I miss that stuff. I wish I had more!

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  • Nona
    Expert November 2019
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    I would change it all! Now I just wished we would have eloped just the two of us. But it is what it is and we are still moving forward with what we have planned and I plan to marry my love no matter what.
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  • Gloria
    Super March 2019
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    Oh my god my husband and I were discussing this last night and don’t get me wrong our wedding was beautiful and everything came out perfect, but if I had of chance on redoing the wedding I will go to the courthouse with our closest family and friends and get married there .I would definitely wear a regular beautiful dress and not a ballgown wearing a ball gown all night long was difficult I couldn’t really dance with it on ... But now we are married and we are extremely happy
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  • Chandra
    Master May 2019
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    If I had to do it again, I dont think I would have changed much! I would have asked my childhood best friend to be my MOH.
    I have seen cute decor that I might have done if I had seen them sooner, but I loved everything about our day!
    I do wish I had been better about talking to everybody at the reception. But I spent a pot of time dancing and enjoying the party.
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  • Rachel
    Expert September 2019
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    Hah. We would use the money to elope someplace awesome and not worry about who might get "offended" for this or that random thing.

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
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    Well, the thing is... I was a wedding planner for 10 years. So I’ve done my fair share of planning. I already have the vision all planned. It’s nice to be able to sit back and relax for my own.
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  • Breanna
    Beginner September 2022
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    I have given myself about 3 years to plan. We are thinking of having a fall wedding in September of 2022. This is partially because I am excited and partially because we've decided on a pretty big budget.

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