So I've been planning my wedding for 2 years now. I'm getting married this Saturday. I have been on top of this wedding making sure everything goes smoothly. However no matter how on top of things I am something out of my control always seems to happen. Covid happened and made us change all our plans(like I'm sure it did for everyone getting married) , we lost our venue 3 months before the wedding and had to scramble around to find a new venue at the last minute (which this venue has so many rules and we have to do everything ourselves with limitations do to rules for none members of the club we are having it at), and lastly we just found out this morning that our officiant will not be able to marry us this Saturday because of a family emergency (so now we are scrambling around to find someone very last minute to marry us). I'm trying to stay positive but as a person who suffers from anxiety it is so hard to keep calm. But everything is going to work out as well as it can. I just want to let anyone planning know that no matter what you do and how on top of things you are, that it isn't going to work out as you planned. You are going to have things thrown at you that you didn't expect and it's ok, you can make it through it. You just have to roll with the punches and be prepared for things to not go exactly the way you planned. And your wedding day will still be as beautiful as you hoped.