Kayla
Savvy July 2021

i want to call off the wedding

Kayla, on June 21, 2020 at 2:33 PM Posted in Family and Relationships 0 34
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How do I tell my fiancé I don’t want to get married anymore

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Latest activity by Anna, on July 2, 2020 at 5:16 PM
  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
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    "I don't want to get married anymore because..."

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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
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    Do you still want to be with him? Do you just want to postpone the marriage til later? Or do you want to just not be with him at all?
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  • Jai
    Rockstar May 2020
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    That's so hard. Especially when you dont want to hurt his feelings. Honesty is the best policy. I'm sorry you're feeling that way!
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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    I just want to postpone until we can get are own place
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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    We have been fighting a lot
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
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    Oh! In that case I would just be honest and say maybe you feel you guys aren’t ready yet for that because there’s other things you want to accomplish in your relationship first
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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    Yeah I was thinking about doing that but he’s more excited for the wedding then I am
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
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    I guess though another thing I have to ask is why not just marry? I mean do you eventually want to marry him at all? Because you can still achieve what you want to achieve when married
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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    I do want to marry him but he’s telling me to grow up. But he doesn’t want to move out of his moms house after we are married
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
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    Yeah it sounds like there’s some things you guys aren’t on the same page about
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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    Yeah I can afford a place by myself I have a pretty good job but for some reason or other he doesn’t want to get a place with me
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  • Melle
    Legend June 2019
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    Is he himself stable?
    I’ve a friend who her partner is super stable but she herself is a mess aha she’s unemployed and she just doesn’t have herself figured out yet so she said she wants that figured out before they take any further steps towards their future together so that she feels she’s an equal to him
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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    Yes we both have good jobs he’s actually going for a better job after the coronavirus is over he has a test for it and he’s done with school and I’ve been done with school too and no matter what I end up being the bad guy because the are that I can afford I don’t he says school are not the best but my brother is a teacher at the school and we don’t have kids and my mom and dad offered to help us pay for catholic schools when we do
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  • Kaysey
    Super February 2020
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    I would say have a real heart to heart with him. Without getting confrontational ask him why he doesn't want to get a place with you before the wedding, and maybe he'll ask you why you want a place first before the wedding. I know it might be tough but in the end if you don't want to get married right now, talk to him about postponing the wedding. Speaking out will be better in the long run than settling and going on with the wedding before you're ready.

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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    That’s a really good idea ty 😊
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  • Margel & Jake
    Savvy January 2021
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    Wait what??...
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  • Hanna
    VIP June 2019
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    Maybe try couples counseling?

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  • K
    Savvy October 2020
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    Margel & Jake....I was thinking the same thing.

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  • Kristen
    Master November 2020
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    Hello. I read all the comments and as Melle said it does sound like you two have two different mindsets. I can say that marriage is a challenge or even living together and factoring that in with a mother in law an make it more of a challenge. My friend went through that the first year of her marriage. I would say you two should talk some things out because I see you love him and you want to hold off on the wedding but the comment that he made you should grow up is a little harsh on his end. I agree that before dropping money on a wedding you two should have a place. I would seriously ask why he wants to still live with his mother after marriage. I think you both have some compromises or things to figure out before getting married.

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  • Kayla
    Savvy July 2021
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    I was thinking that to but we do have almost year to go over it all but it’s get to be the time that we want to book a dj and stuff and my mom wants to go look at dress.
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