“I think I’m available”

This is us right now! My aunt was like "we are definitely going" and she has yet to RSVP. I am like you need to RSVP and define "we." Then my other aunt texted me and said that my aunt said she is undecided because of the drive. I responded that that is okay since I was going to put her down as a no anyway and my aunt was like what if she decides to go and I was like too bad.

My RSVP date was April 30th and they should have gotten the invitation with the card to send back. Then I emailed all the ones that did not respond a week after the RSVP date with a online RSVP option that I created. Then I sent her a text last week and then another text to those that have not RSVPed still yesterday. So I am like at this point, she is a no and if she decides to come, she better hope that the seating arrangement is in her favor and there are empty chairs to fill the table that she can have. This is not my problem anymore.

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Yes!! A lot of my money were like "I might end up going" and I am like no, this is not just some random "meet me at the mall" hangout!

Someone did something similar to me. I messaged them and said "I'm sad I didn't get a response from you. But the deadline was yesterday which means I can no longer add you to the guest list. Love you still!!" Took her 2 days to respond to this but I finalized my guest list so that's all I care about lol

I’d mark that as a no! We’re still waiting for a few RSVP’s too and the wushu washy answers don’t fly for me.