I think 3 years is fine.

So my man popped the question this Christmas. Which was a complete surprise ..we will have already been together for 4 years in April ..so I figured we should get married a few years out but in April so we decided out date would be Saturday April 11th 2020. Yes that's 3 years and 3 months away but I don't think there is anything wrong with that ..I'm not in a rush to get married ,we wanted to give ourselves time to get everything together. But my mother while being supportive is trying to make me move the date up which isn't going to happen but still every time I talk to her she's like complaining about it..and I'm like back off its my wedding ..I just don't see what the issue is with that timeline. Have any of you dealt with a situation like this?