Tom
Savvy October 2021

i the groom will be wearing womens shoes and would like some advice

Tom, on August 16, 2021 at 10:08 AM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 26
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I am the groom and I have decided as I have always loved how womens shoes look to wear womens shoes on my wedding day and would like some advice on womens shoes that look good with a suit and where is a good place to get wedding shoes from

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Latest activity by Tom, on August 16, 2021 at 3:33 PM
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    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    What kind of women shoes are you looking to get? Heels?
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    I am looking to get either ballet flats or heels and I don't mind if it's either
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    Anais ·
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    I would start with DSW. They have a huge variety of shoes (not just for wedding) at very reasonable prices. If you’re looking more for white specifically marketed towards brides shoes, try Bella belle. Beautiful but pricey shoes.
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Thank you so much and I'll check both of them out also thanks for not minding that I want to wear womens shoes to my wedding as a man
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  • A
    Super December 2020
    Anais ·
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    Nothing wrong with that! I looooove shoes and completely understand wanting to wear pretty ones.
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Well just thank you and yeah mens wedding shoes just look really boring compared to women's ones which look amazing
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    Super September 2020
    Willow ·
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    Off Broadway


    Payless has a lot of wide sizes, but I would not recommend their heels. They tend to be stiff and hurt your feet
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Oh ok thank you so much, I'll check them out
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  • Meghan
    Expert September 2021
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    Was looking on Pinterest and know these aren’t women shoes but thought these were pretty! https://pin.it/1AlBjGr


    I’d also check out Betsy Johnson! They have
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Oh ok I'll probably skip them as I really want to wear actual womens shoes but thank you anyway and I'll definitely check out Betsy Johnson
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  • Meghan
    Expert September 2021
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    You’re welcome! Oh also think Davids bridal has a few and they usually have good deals.
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
    Tom ·
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    Oh ok I'll check them out aswell and I have to thank you for being nice about me wanting to wear womens shoes to my wedding
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  • Meghan
    Expert September 2021
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    Absolutely! You’ll def have to share pics to see how it looks!
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Yeah I definitely will and thank you
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  • Jessica
    Dedicated August 2021
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    DSW is awesome & has ton of variety! I originally got my shoes from David's Bridal (where I got my dress) but they were so uncomfortable so I ended up getting a new pair from DSW & they are perfect. Smiley smile

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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Oh ok thats interesting and I'll definitely check DSW out thank you so much and if you don't mind, what made them uncomfortable
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  • Mcskipper
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    If you haven’t delved into women’s shoes before, i most recommend buying a couple styles and wearing them around the house to see what FEELS good. Cute shoes often come with a side effect of being uncomfortable or difficult to walk in, so don’t underestimate the importance of feeling them out to make sure they are physically comfortable ! Comfort is key on your wedding day! (Lol, so much so that I opted for sneakers!).


    Also, what looks best with a suit will also depend on the suit itself, specifically the cut of the pants.
    DSW and Zappos both have good online shops and return policies, so particularly if you have your suit pants already, you can try them on with your outfit to see how they look. Online is also a nice option because you can sort by size to make sure you can find something that fits, but you can also sort by style and color .
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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Oh ok I own one pair of womens ballet flats that I occasionally wear, I'll just buy a couple of pairs anyway to be safe, yeah most cute shoes do, oh ok I understand that about the suit, I will check those places out and thank you so much
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  • Jessica
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    The shoes from David's were open toed with one thick strap over the top of my foot. The strap was extremely hard & sharp feeling on the edges. If I had to stand for a long period of time (example: during my dress fitting) they would start to cut off my circulation & I ended up getting blood blisters. I have small (size 5.5), narrow feet so I don't usually have that issue.

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  • Tom
    Savvy October 2021
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    Oh ok thanks for letting me know that and can I ask you (you don't have to answer) what type of womens shoes would go best with a suit
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