i said yes but no moment of it's the one

I think that you look amazing! And I think that your dress is beautiful.

View Quoted Comment Ohhh no I hope you love it still!!!

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much you are right I wont even care what dress I have on in the end

View Quoted Comment Aweee thank you i am excited to see it all together as well and really see how it will come together

View Quoted Comment Thank you so much gloria I appreciate it I guess I'm just having that buyer's remorse lol I hear van be very common so im just trying to wait till it comes inand u get the first fitting to really judge how I feel

You look beautiful

I think you look beautiful! there is nothing wrong with still shopping around. if you find a better one that gives you "the moment" then return the first or try and sell!

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View Quoted Comment I haven't thought of that it does make me feel better that I can exchange just insecure when it does come in i still dont feel like it's the one

@wife thank you so much such good points and advice! it is nice to know the way I'm feeling is normal or at least there are others that are experiencing the same thing! I never initially thought I would even pick a dress do finding one that I did like and felt went good for a beach was refreshing I think I'm just over thinking how I want to look and its causing me to doubt my decision!

Sorry you don't feel like you had the IT moment but the dress is beautiful and you are stunning in it. It hugs you in all the right places.....and I mean that in the most non creepy way possible lol

View Quoted Comment Thank you lol I completely understand the not creapy way lol i appreciate your compliments thank you so much! I may just be over thinking the dress I'm giving myself until then fitting to have my final opinion lol

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Planning photo shoot hopefully in February around Valentines Day depending on if everything has arrived and photographer availability...EXCITED

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This is the truth. It's so stressful and mountains of decisions sometimes it takes a few "Yes" from other sources to make you feel like you can take a breath!

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It doesn't have to be a dress if that's not you. You can go with separates, or even a smart pant or jumpsuit. If that makes you feel more you, then do it. You are free to experiment and explore.

I hope you find what you love, be that falling for your dress or finding something else. Good luck.

View Quoted Comment Yes I agree I felt very bad after I purchased I kept looking at it unhappily but I do feel like just by getting some other opinions makes me second look at it and really start to like it again lol

View Quoted Comment Aweee thank you so much I am going to continue to look but also keep an open mind when I get fitted for this one hopefully i am just over thinking things lol

View Quoted Comment Maybe you can look into color with your jewelry and hair designs. Play around with make-up, hair styles etc. Maybe you don't feel colorful?

Girl, I get it. I don't wear dresses (working on changing that). I am a big girl but I love my dress. My "moment" was a big smile on my face. My consultant said I was glowing in the dress but with the others I had no reaction.

The dress is, without a doubt, beautiful on you and seems perfect. in my opinion, this shape is rather slimming. go with your gut though. if you are unsure and do not feel beautiful or comfortable, take some time off and re-schedule a few appointments to reasses what you really want in a dress. i didnt have the moment that most brides recollect having. instead, i tried on dress after dress after dress and eventually returned to my favorite one. after trying it back on, i didnt understand why i continued trying other gowns on in the first place because it was clearly made for me. regardless, your future hubby loves you the way you are and you will be beautiful in any dress. relax and enjoy the process 💕