i need some advice.

Ok so i got married right out of High School to my childhood sweetheart. Although i don't regret it. The wedding we had was pretty much just a get together and the whole thing lasted about an hour....SERIOUSLY.... I never got a party, no first dance, my father wasn't in the picture but now i have a fantastic FATHER. So i would get my father daughter which is something i have dreamed about. I asked if he would walk me and he said YES and that he would dance with me! My Uncle walked me last time. SO June 25th of next year (2021) We will be married 10 years, so we are wanting to do a renewal and this is my time to get those things every girl dreams of. My family is overjoyed. My mom is already shopping and ill have all my friends, family and most importantly our little girl this time! Should i actually treat this as my first time wedding? I already asked people to be bridesmaids and Groomsman. I need help ladies. PLEASEEE. AM i going overboard or is this MY time finally!?