Here’s the cliff note version of my issue, dilemma(did I spell that right? Lol)
So, one of my friends is getting married Aug 2022. I recently got engaged and was planning a Sept 2022 wedding. She got all butthurt because I was going to book her venue, it’s gorgeous. But, we changed our mind. $4500 for a venue? Anyway, she was still upset because it would take away from her day. Also, I didn’t announce my engagement because I didn’t want to take away from her excitement. Another close friend decided to take it upon herself to tell everyone before I could. Now, I’m no longer in her wedding and we are all fighting. Claiming that I’m full of drama. Is there protocol for telling people? My thoughts are, that it’s my wedding and I can keep it to myself for as long as I want. Btw, my fiancé and I are doing all of the planning ourselves.. what do y’all think?