I was thinking, that instead of asking our guests to give us gifts or money or whatever at our wedding, I was thinking of maybe saying "instead of a gift, you can opt to help pay for one of our more expensive wedding things". Not that I can't afford anything that I'm getting for my wedding (because I know I just posted about being under budget), but I also don't want a bunch of stuff in my house that I'm not going to use. I know this might start some controversy (I've seen other posts that weren't as similar, but showed the same signs as asking for money), and I'm apologizing. To make up for it, I'm posting a picture of a baby panda bear so no one can be mad at this post when they see it.
Thanks!
