i just want to cry, catering has fallen through

So originally planned September 2020 blah blah blah now its August 28th, 2021. We kept everything and just pushed it back. Well the event coordinator at our venue changed, and that was stressful at first but is fine now. Well we already picked food over a year ago. Figured we would keep the same food but decided to schedule a food tasting anyways just to make sure we don't want to change our minds. Well....the event coordinator sent the menu. It is legit straight up backyard BBQ style. No offense to anyone who wanted that, but it is the exact opposite of what we picked. We picked very nice steak, chicken, and vegetarian options plated. The menu is literally what we eat as a family at family gatherings. I am less than 4 months from the wedding and there is a slim chance of getting catering now.