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Stephanie
Super July 2020

i have to walk alone...

Stephanie, on September 25, 2019 at 3:26 PM

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Hey Ladies, my Father recently passed away on 8/8/2019 (Rest in Heaven Daddy) and I have no one else close to me to walk me down the isle. Is this a thing or not? I have only been to one wedding where a bride walked down by herself and her father and step father were both there. I thought about a...

Hey Ladies, my Father recently passed away on 8/8/2019 (Rest in Heaven Daddy) and I have no one else close to me to walk me down the isle. Is this a thing or not? I have only been to one wedding where a bride walked down by herself and her father and step father were both there. I thought about a few of my uncles stepping in, but realistically, they are unreliable. My brother and I aren't on the best terms and does not support my relationship. It makes me sad every time I think about this part of my wedding. I am also trying to figure out some ways to honor my Dad during the ceremony or while I am walking down the isle....Alone.

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  • Stephanie
    Super July 2020
    Stephanie ·
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    Kaitlin sorry to hear about your dad. I already planned to add the charms for him and save him a seat as well. I have a son, but FH said he already has something special planned for my son to do, so walking me down is out. I will walk alone and have FH meet me halfway. Thanks for the input.

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  • Stephanie
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    Thank you dear

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  • Kaitlin
    Savvy February 2020
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    Thanks, I'm sorry for your loss as well... It's been almost 10 years for me and it still kills planning my wedding without my dad. I can only imagine it being fresh.. Keep your head up, I'm sure your wedding will be spectacular!
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  • Stephanie
    Super July 2020
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    Thank you Kaitlin and yes, I do get very sad when I think about that part among other things.
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  • N
    Just Said Yes July 2021
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    Add his favorite colors your not alone I don’t have a father in my life so I’ll be walking down by myself maybe ask your mom to walk with you
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  • Stephanie
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    Nicole, thank you so much

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  • N
    Just Said Yes July 2021
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    Your very welcome
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  • Florida Marlins
    Expert October 2017
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    I just went to a wedding where the bride had a dad and stepdad present and she walked alone.

    I am sorry for your loss.

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  • 8Bitbek
    Devoted October 2020
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    My heart breaks for your loss. If you feel comfortable walking alone, that is an option. Otherwise I would consider your future FIL, depending on your relationship with him.
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  • Desiree
    Super March 2020
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    Bless your heart dear. My father is not in the picture, and my beautiful mother passed from a short battle with Cancer earlier this year - I, too, am walking alone down the aisle. It makes me tear up every time I think about it too, and many people have offered to walk me. I don't know about you, but I'd rather walk alone given the circumstances, than walk beside someone who just doesn't mean as much to me. (I really don't want to sound mean or insensitive...) But no one could replace my beautiful mother, who was supposed to be there. God bless, take care.

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  • Stephanie
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    Florida Marlins, Thank you so much. Yeah my BFF did the same and bother father and step-father were present.

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  • Stephanie
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    8BitBek thank you so much. I have decided to walk it alone and have my FH meet me half way. No one can fill my Dad's shoes.

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  • Stephanie
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    Desiree, OMG baby girl. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother. I almost lost my mom to cancer as well. I don't wish that on my worst enemy to see a loved on go through that fight. I too get emotional when thinking about my wedding day. We both feel the same exact way. I have made the decision to walk alone and maybe have my future husband meet me half way because I know I am going to break down and He is the only one that can get me through that moment. I will be adding charms on my bouquet with my father's pictures in them as well as saving him a seat. We are also releasing doves. I will be praying for you. This pain we feel is still so fresh and new. Sending you Love and Light.

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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
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    I’m walking alone. 🙋🏽‍♀️ We also have lots of friends but we aren’t having a bridal party. My parents will walk together and FH parents will walk together. FH will walk out alone as well.

    I just don’t get stuck on “a WAY” something is supposed to be. It’s OUR wedding! So we’re doing it our way and in a style that’s true to us and what we want.
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  • Stephanie
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    Sexypoodle, I can respect that.

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  • Brandi
    Devoted July 2020
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    My dad is an absent father. My 10 year old nephew will walk me halfway and my mom will finish the rest. Your mom can walk you down, your sister and MOH can walk you down. It doesn't have to be a man. Your groom can walk with you or he can meet you halfway and you walk into your new life together. Or, you can walk alone and that's perfectly fine too. It won't be weird or creepy having to keep at an awkward pace with someone and all attention is SOLELY on you. But, my mom was more than honored to want to walk me down. It's not an obligation, it's a respect and honor.

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  • Desiree
    Super March 2020
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    Bless you, you sound so sweet. Thank you so so much for your kind words. I'll be thinking of you during this time, my thoughts and prayers go out to you. Smiley heart I hope that through everything, you enjoy this day and let it be the happiest you've ever had. Sending you good energy as well, take care of you and yours my dear.

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  • Brittany
    Super May 2020
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    First, I am so sorry for your loss. My deepest condolences.

    They have tiny picture frames that attach to your bouquet that you could put his picture in, I'll include some pictures as examples in ways you can honor him on your big day Smiley heart

    sewing a piece of his favorite shirt into your dress AND/OR sewing his name in remembrance.i have to walk alone... 1The picture frames in rectanglei have to walk alone... 2here's another one where they sewed the shirt into the dressi have to walk alone... 3Using his favorite tie/ties as bouquet wraps for you and your girls or just you or just your girlsi have to walk alone... 4tiny picture frames on your shoesi have to walk alone... 5setting up his photo for the ceremony and/or reception in a reserved spacei have to walk alone... 6tiny picture frame in a circle instead of rectanglei have to walk alone... 7a keepsake to tie onto your bouqueti have to walk alone... 8sewing a piece of his favorite shirt to the back of your gowni have to walk alone... 9and again, but in the front this timei have to walk alone... 10


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  • Stephanie
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    BRANDI, thanks so much for your response. I've decided to let my FH meet me half way.

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  • Stephanie
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    Brittany, OMG these are lovely. I did decide on the charms for my bouquet already, but all of them are great ideas. Thank you so much. I love it. Smiley heart Smiley heart Smiley heart Smiley heart Smiley heart Smiley heart Smiley heart

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