i have to walk alone...

My biological father and i dont have that kind of relationship and was not a part of my life, my adopted father died when i was 11 so if the Lord bless my grandfather to see my wedding day in april 2021 he will be the one to walk me down since he has been in my ENTIRE life.

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Aleaj thank you so much.

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Claire thank you so much for you input and condolences. I really appreciate it.

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Latonya I wish I did have my grandfather's to step in but they are both passed away as well. Thank you for your input. Good luck on your special day.

View Quoted Comment Mallory, I have alot of his ties. I will go through them and see which ones match my wedding colors and incorporate that somehow. Thanks for the feedback.

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Alicia. No I want my mom to just enjoy the day and take it all in and look pretty lol.

Your welcome

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P&J I know how you feel. Everyone has their opinion and suggestions and it sometimes drives me nuts. There is no one that can fill his shoes so I will just walk alone. I'm sorry about your dad also.

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L. Madhak. I think I will just do the same. Sorry about your dad. Good luck with everything.

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Andrea. Thank you so much. I am sorry to hear about your mom also. My heart goes out to you.

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Laura, I agree. I feel like my mom has her own part to play and I don't want her to have to walk me down the isle. I am sorry to hear that you have suffered so much loss. My condolences.

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Cyndy thank you for your condolences. I have been looking into the bouquet charm and thinking of just walking alone now.

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Molly thank you so much. Everyone is bringing up the bouquet charm so I think I may do that.

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Catherine. Thank you so much for your condolences. I think I will look into the lockets or charms to have on my bouquet.

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Kelly thank you so much.

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Kiara, no I don't want to ask my mom. I think I may just do it alone.

I completely feel your pain... my father died when I was 8 and it's so hard knowing that he won't be able to walk me down the aisle. I have no father figures in my life at all so that's not an option either.

I did decide to have my 3 brothers walk my down the aisle although. Two will be spread out through the aisle and my oldest will walk in with me, handing me off to my 2nd oldest, and then my youngest brother will be there to give me away.

I think it will be fine if you walked by yourself, or better yet, I have also seen weddings where the groom comes to meet the bride halfway! I'm sure you'll figure out something that works best for you. Best wishes!

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Shannon remembrance table is a sweet idea

A lot of people I know, particularly over 25 or so, have chosen to walk alone down the aisle, or enter from the opposite side as groom and meet at the altar, to make a statement that, like the man ( or woman) they are marrying, they are independent, capable, self-supporting people before marriage, and come to marriage with their FI as equals. Even with very much loved fathers or grandfathers and brothers there. I think it is a fine choice .

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Cardioqueen thats is awesome you have such a strong mother. I am sorry for your loss as well.