I will be a BM in FSIL's wedding this Spring. The dress she has chosen requires strapless/no bra. I am basically the president of the I.B.T.C. and have problems holding up anything strapless. [Sidenote: isn't the whole point of a bra to hold *you* up and not the other way around? Ugh]. I've had a humiliating experience in the past where I was in public and my strapless bra started slipping. It was a situation where I was unable to excuse myself and go adjust, so I spent a few hours with my lightly padded bra down around my lower ribs. Awful!
I could go bra-less, but then I feel like I could be mistaken for a 10 year old. Or a boy. I would like something there to add some, er, 'definition'.
Anyone have tips or tricks to share to help me get through FSIL's special day?
Thanks in advance!