Shelby
Savvy June 2020

i got my dress today and my mom hates it

Shelby, on November 10, 2019 at 10:26 PM Posted in Wedding Attire 0 25
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Today was the day I got my wedding dress , I absolutely LOVE IT, I am getting lace straps put on the dress to hold up the top since I am heavy chested , but I’m not sure how to do my hair




Also my appointment today was awful, there was so much drama between my mom and my fiancé’s family , I was honestly to the point of taking the dress off and just leaving . Also my mom HATES my wedding dress.....

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  • Yoice
    VIP March 2019
    Yoice ·
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    Is beautiful!! Don’t worry she’ll love it once is your dress and is fitted to you. I personally like updo for weddings but your dress is strapless so anything goes! Half up and down or even all down as well.
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  • Halie
    Beginner November 2019
    Halie ·
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    I adore your wedding dress! It's so beautiful!! I think an updo would look best because of the detail with the dress.
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  • Chrysta
    Expert November 2020
    Chrysta ·
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    So sorry you had to deal with all that. It’s so disappointing with others (especially mothers!) can’t remember that it’s YOUR day! Rest assured though, you look amazing in your dress!! You will be a stunning bride!
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  • L
    Dedicated May 2020
    Leslie ·
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    What does she dislike about it? I think it’s beautiful! And with right undergarments and all jazzed up you’ll be rocking it (and the girls locked and loaded!).

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  • Erin
    Super June 2021
    Erin Online ·
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    My mom doesn’t like my dress either. As long as you like it and feel good in it, that’s what matters.
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  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
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    It's beautiful
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  • Cheryl
    Expert November 2020
    Cheryl ·
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    I'm so sorry there was all that drama. Your dress is beautiful and once it comes in and everything is put together she'll love it.
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  • Erica
    Dedicated November 2019
    Erica ·
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    It’s beautiful and you look beautiful in it !! It’s your day and if your dress makes you feel like a million bucks then nothing else matters ! 🤗❤️
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  • Cliodhna
    WeddingWire Administrator January 2030
    Cliodhna Online ·
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    I'm sorry you had a tough time with them all, Shelby!

    Your dress is beautiful. What's important is that you love it. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks Smiley smile

    How would you typically wear your hair every day? would you like to do something different?

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  • Taylor
    Super October 2020
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    Gorgeous! Just let it roll off your back. My dress experience was also a nightmare so I know how you feel. If you love it, don't let anyone else tell you different! You'll look beautiful on your wedding daySmiley smile

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  • Alyssa
    Expert June 2020
    Alyssa ·
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    To avoid drama, when you come back for your fitting, bring ONE person. Your mom, your MOH, whoever you think will be the best person. NOT an entourage.

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  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Sorry you had to deal with it it’s good that you picked what YOU wanted and didn’t let anyone get to you. I’m sure she will love it on your wedding day when you’re all done up. Congratulations on finding your perfect dress. It looks beautiful on you!
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  • Tina
    March 2020
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    The dress looks amazing on you!
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
    Ivy ORP ·
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    I'm sorry that others took some of your joy away but your dress is gorgeous! As for hair, A half up-half down look might be nice, or something like a swept to one side look.

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  • Stephanie
    Just Said Yes October 2020
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    You look beautiful in that dress. Don't let your mom ruin your big day or let her change your mind. The only people that their opinion matters is you and you fiance. Don't let anyone dull your sparkle! ❤️❤️
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  • W
    Devoted September 2020
    Willow ·
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    I love it! You are so cute! Moms can be such haters at times. It happens
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  • Michelle
    Super September 2020
    Michelle ·
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    I think it's beautiful and it looks beautiful on you. Don't worry about what others think about your dress. You matter most, enjoy that moment!
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  • Sarah
    Dedicated December 2020
    Sarah ·
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    It is a pretty dress and congratulations on finding your wedding dress. It is your day, not your moms. You are the one wearing the dress and walking down the aisle. As long as you feel confident and beautiful in your dress no one else’s opinions matter.
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  • Chanie
    Dedicated April 2020
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    I understand the feeling my mom does not like my dress either and has made comments about it being ugly and making me look fat (there is a detachable tulle train and she thinks the extra fabric is bulky and makes me look bigger). I still love my dress and it is my day. My feelings were hurt originally but I got over it because I will not allow anyone to ruin my day or make choices for me.

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  • Heather
    Savvy October 2020
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    OOOOOOOOOOOOO MY SOUL!!!! that dressssssss is beautiful!!!!!!!!

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