OK, so here is the thing. I am not close to my father at all. In fact he wasnt and isnt in my life and im 40 years old. I know who he is and have talked to him from time to time and the last time i saw him was July 2017 and we have spoken only once since then.
With that being said I am also not very close with my aunts and uncles on that side. We only talk via FB comments "when" they actually comment on something or I get the birthday notification. I have pretty much completed my guest list and it includes all of my "adopted" family (guess i failed to mention that part). I have my aunts and uncle that are living and their spouses on the list.
I am struggling because I don't even want to give my father and his wife an invite. He has not been a part of my relationship or my life for that matter. And the only reason I thought to do it was out of respect, bc he is my father. But a bigger part of me doesn't want to do it. Am I wrong?
I do know that if I don't do it, I am going to upset about 14 people, all on my father side.
What are your thoughts?
Oh and NONE of them except 1 has met my fiance of 8 years....EIGHT YEARS!
Lets talk