One of my best friends has a significant other who verbally and emotionally assaulted me years ago. He was drunk, I was driving them home from a concert, and I felt so unsafe that I ended up having to get a hotel. It was the first time I met the guy. He never apologized and I have never again felt comfortable going to see my friend.
I don't feel comfortable with him coming to my wedding. This isn't something that is just me not liking him. My partner also does not want him there. I totally understand that if I don't like somebody I should suck it up if they are a friend's chosen other half, but this is different. I literally feel unsafe with this guy there. What do I do? What if my friend insists on bringing him? I can't NOT invite her...
Thanks for the help!
